Hey guys I have this burning question in my mind I met this girl and we made out once in my bed but when we were about to have sex she stopped me and said she hand a boyfriend, then things cooled of a bit and we started texting at some point she said: Are you going for a walk with your girlfriend? It was obviously a question to know If I had a girlfriend and to let me know that she was interested in me and i freaked out I didn't knew what to respond and I just said that I didn't had one and then things cooled of again.

Did I fucked it up the first time we made out?
Did I fucked it up again by text?

No, actually.

She's just being hot/cold, it's a natural thing for women to do.

She doesn't want you to think that just because she IS attracted to you, she is "easy".

You need to be clear to her that while you are indeed attracted to her, you can't spend your time waiting for her to sort out her relationship. You have to make her realise that in your world, she is NOT the only woman that you will ever come across. That she is expendable. That should humble her off her high horse.

Also, when she brought up her boyfriend card, you could've just disregarded it entirely with a -

"So what? I want you. I don't care. I can't stop thinking about you."

That'd have blown away her meek resistance to halfway across hell.

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Thanks for the response I'm looking forward to become an active member of this forum