Hey guys, brand new poster here.

Just a little bit about myself that may help y'all understand where I'm coming from. I'm 6'1, currently 219 lbs, I grew up my whole life as a morbidly obese child, I was 280 lbs less than 2 years ago, I lost all my weight on diet/exercise. But growing up being that much overweight, I've always had problems with confidence with girls, feeling like I'm not good enough, blaming anything that went wrong with girls on my weight. But now that I've shed all that weight, although I do look better, I can't help but shake that mindset I'm so used to, blaming it still on my weight. I graduated HS winning Class Clown, I do stand up for fun, I've used my comedy to help me get girls in the past.

I have no problem with approaching girls, it's quite easy for me, I'm sociable. I simply ask them a question, then go from there, and as I've read thus far in this forum, that's what you do for the most part.

I tend to not build any sexual tension, simply because I don't know how as well as I'm just a friendly person usually, that tactic landed me in FZ all of my life, so I'm hoping to fix that.

I am extremely creative, I can talk about anything, I can hold a conversation for hours, my issue, is building the ST and SI and closing for the number and/or kill.

I've read the S&A technique, I've read the triangular look, both of which I am very capable of executing with precision.

Any help please let me know, ask any questions if you need more info.

Thanks

How's your kino? Touch make the difference between friend zone and sexual interest.

Meh, not sure, I'm not afraid of touching a girl, I'm trying to find the balance between kino seduction and too aggressive, or too little.

Where I typically am around the most women, at school, on the drunk bus (liveinacollegetown), clubs, pool.

Any links or tips for those environments?

Too aggressive may be the best way to start. You'd be surprised by how much you can get away with, and how light kino gets blown out completely by someone with aggressive kino.

Slow down the touching for day game, and speed it up when you've both been drinking, but make sure that you're constantly testing your kino limits. I'm still working a lot on mine, but the nights when I'm "on" are the ones where I can comfortably touch girls.

Please, any one else have tips?

Keep putting yourself outside out your comfort zone and it will expand... it seems you are very comfortable talking to girls, but not escalating, so start kino agressively and early, and keep escalating... remember you are talking to these girls in order to fuck them (or to find a girlfriend/regular fuck), so there must be some touching involved.

from the great glengarry glenross:
ABC - Always Be Closing...
That means you kiss close her... if she moves away but doesn't run away then you number close her, if she's still there then you kiss close her again...
i've had girls say no they aren't going to kiss me 8 times! before i kissed them (the fact that i let it slip that i had a girlfriend didn't help) no i wasn't being totally slimey and yes i did see her again.

all i'm saying is keep trying physically and with more intent, remember you have enough friends, but not enough girlfriends!

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