Man, from his earliest creation, has had to hear these four dreaded words, Let Just Be Friends. These words have caught many men off guard, and has always given the women the upper hand. We all dread it, and we all do things to avoid it. But when it happens, it's like the apocalypse on a man's confidence, destroying everything, leaving nothing.

I haven't been told Let Just Be Friends in awhile.

Why?

Because at 19 I fell for this girl and after 6 months of taking her out, spending hours on the phone with her, buying stuff for her, she tells me LJBF...
Ever since, every girl I have dealt with has been in such a way that I would never have to hear those words again.
And exactly how did I not hear those words again?

I became a very sexual/relentless guy, and I let girls know right away this is a physical thing. I eye f*ck the shit of every girl, if my hand is in reaching distance she will be pulled in, I will touch them, feel them up, hold them tight, and the second they hold my eye contact longer than 3 seconds, I kiss them. When I kiss them, you better believe my hands are grabbing her tits/ass. Simple as that, I am always conveying "I am going to f*ck you", my actions always lead to f*cking them.

I want girls to feel uncomfortable around me, I want them to know that when they are with me, they know what they want, and they know what I want from them.
They only two answers I will accept from a girl is "Fuck you" or "Fuck me", no in between. Anything in between is just doubt/would've/could've's.



Girls will now be told LJBFB(Let's Just Be Fuck Buddies).


Warning: This leads to several rejections, loneliness, and meaningless one night stands. Girls will describe you to friends as asshole, creepy, manly, sexual, irresistible, jerk-off, intimidating, cold-hearted and mysterious. Meaningful relationships do not develop from the above actions.

Very true, samex. I used to have the same problem.

But what about girls who prefer being friends first before hooking up or dating? Is that a rare thing?

I've been talking to this girl for a few months, I kinda like her and she gives me tons of IOIs too. We call each other friends but there's definitely some sexual tension between us. I kino the hell out of her when we're alone or if I go out to a club/bar with her. But other than kino escalating and flirting I haven't done much. Never even kissed her. I'm afraid if I stay like this for too long I'll be in the friend zone w/ no sexual tension at all. But then again I feel like not being too aggressive, keeping my distance and being mysterious has helped me out. When I don't talk to her for too long she starts missing me. But I need to take it to the next level (wouldn't even mind dating her). Any advice?

Btw- I haven't seen her in a while and she just texted me 'I miss you'. How would you guys respond to that? Is saying I miss you back a bad idea? Is it better to just not reply or reply w/ just a smiley face? Thnx

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