yeah, I dont plan on txt'ing her until after 6pm today. But I was supposed to hangout with her tomorrow...should I call and remind her (i made plan last saturday to do so). Tips. Tips. I dont want to come across as desperate etc. undervalueing me.

No No no.

Freeze out, not lightly cool a bit.

Don't text her/call her for 3-4-5 days. Let her call you.

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If I freeze out, will she not lose interest? I only got to hangout with her once, and I wouldnt say it was for a long time. Since then, it has only been pretty playful txts on my part (neggin and push-pull).

I know what you're going through man, I'm the exact same, but thank god I've got this site to help me stem my habits. Do NOT call her. She's an adult, she shouldn't need a reminder. I would also make other plans, and make a point of blowing her off, go out, have a good time, and if she asks, well, that's what a freeze out's all about. You never heard from her, and you 'completely forgot' you made plans with her.

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But I just asked her to hangout on Saturday with me, I never specified when/where etc. Also, you feel in freezing her out, she will spark some more interest in me?

First of all, if she's blowing you off, she may have already lost interest, so you really have nothing to lose. (if something genuinely happened, phone stolen or some shit, then it's a different story.) You've got to show her that you don't have time to wait on her hand and foot, and if she wants attention from you, she's got to work for it, because you're high-qual, man. People are competing for your attention. Make her compete too. DHV.

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I suppose so. If I happen to see her at the party, should I try to engage her or walk away or what? Never had to deal with a situation like this.

You are the Alpha male. Whatever she does cannot affect you. If you feel 'fluttered' by all this your displaying beta behavior.

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Let her come to you, otherwise, don't make a move.

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Ill try it. Any ideas where I couldve gone wrong and mightve caused her to lose interest?

could have been you're attitude, too many negs, not enough pulls.. for example, why didn't you just tell her what movie you where watching when she asked you? It's not like it's gonna hurt you're game to let her know what it is. Maybe she just took it weird, and thought, "wtf?" and kinda gave up on you. I dunno, from what you've written, that's the only thing i can see that could have gone awry. *shrug*

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my friend says maybe to try to get my value back by dropping negs again...thoughts? Or still, freeeze.

Why don't you show her you like her instead of showing that you don't by all your negs and freez outs , dude I feel like you are in a stage of your game where you believe you need to constantly neg to raise your value and spike her attraction, WRONG. I was in the same place a few month back...
Negs are supposed to be used in the beginning and and only a max of 3 time on SHB 10! And like once on something like a HB 8..... After that you gotta use Push-Pulls dude: "Damn your so cute!!....too bad your such a dork"
Think of it as a see-saw with the ends on Super Nice (LJBF Friends, Zone) and Dick (you are a real dick to me and I changed my opinion about you), right now by neging her so much you are a DICK in HER eyes, thats a very possible reason why she stopped talking to you....
You need to balance your IODs (negs, pushs) with your IOIs! (If you like old school Guru's you probably heard the term "microcalbration", research on this topic more if you like)
Oh and one more thing, I would tell you to move on to another girl and learn from your mistakes, but that's your choice....

Cheers

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