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This whole thing of having other options is losing it's focus. You need to have other options so it allows you to make good decisions. If you have other options you will automatically carry yourself that way and it will come across in your confidence as well. Confidence is attractive. Pointing out that you have other options is insecure and needy.
This is pretty much exactly what I wanted to say, word for word.
OP that text was so paper thin you can see through it a mile away.
Like Jack said, actually having other options is portrayed and sub-communicated in your overall behavior. And women will pick up on that. Easily.
Exactly like an employee that has plenty of offers doesn't constantly complain how shit his current job is. If he's dissatisfied, he just picks up and leaves for a better place.