Ok so I'm much better in person in fact I usually try to avoid texting very much at all until after I've taken them out that first time and hooked up with them. Once I'm at that point I'm fine texting them. So I broke the routine and now I think I missed an opportunity. But hopefully a pro can tell me. So I got this girls number n tried to take her out the first time she made an excuse but continued to text me over the next couple days that was a few weeks ago now since then I hAve invited her out at least 4 different times (something that I would never usually do I usually only try once n if she really wants to I figure she'll hit me up) but she seemed more than about it and was flirting with me hard through texts (I'm guessing maybe this is just part of the game I'll never understand) anyhow just a couple days ago I told myself I'll try one more time and when I did she of course didn't respond than she texts me back the next day about something else we were talking about and disregarded my invite. So I'm almost positive I know the answer is to just leave her be and learn the mistakes for the next one right?

She sounds like a time waster. Get sexual with your messages, make your intentions clear. You'll find out very quickly.

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