How's it going everyone so here's my situation before I got engaged I never really had a problem hooking up with girls. the last 4 years I've obviously been out of the game due to my ex fiancé who was a 8/9 depending on your scale so I know the potential is there. Where I'm working it's very easy for me to get numbers but I'm on a pretty negative streak out of 9 numbers that I got in the past month or so I wasn't able to get one out. So if numbers talk I'm definitely doing something wrong but it's crazy cause I'm following the same tactic I was successful with before which is: get number call between a few days to a week later, keep the small talk light, than
Get right to the point let her know I was about to do xxx(usually just grabbing a bite to eat) and wanted to see if she wanted to tag along. Now almost always they pick up and sound delighted to hear from me but are usually in the middle of doing something at the moment. In most situations I'll be able to say no problem if your still game after let me know. But I never get a response and same deal if I text a couple days later I only get games they're tryna play. So anyone with experience who can help me see what's going on is appreciate it.

What do you say when you get the number? Do they know that you're going to want to meet up with them later or are you just assuming that they know? IMO, there is a growing number of women that give you their number but have no intent to do anything with you, so it's your job to screen better.

Secondly, I hate the whole wait a few days thing. A girl is excited when she meets you and not when she hasn't heard from you. You want her to agree to go out with you while she's still high on the thought of you. Two or three days later, she's argued with her ex, her boss yelled at her, and her best friend had told her how terrible all men are. Her real life will take over and whatever positivity that you gave her in the moment of meeting you is gone. So quit leaving her with nothing to anticipate.

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No for most of them at least the initial meet seems to go well they always seem interested or I won't even bother trying to get their number. And I feel like I'm direct I usually always at the end of the conversation if it seems to be going well I ask them if they would be down to get a bite to eat sometime im sure there's a better way to word this but that's how it always comes out. But I think you hit it right on the head with your 2nd point I must always be waiting to long most the time it may even be longer than a week or two before I get the opportunity to call them and be available to go out with my both my jobs it is a challenge to find extra time sometimes and I always try to make that first call asking them out

If you wouldn't mind bud what would you do if you just got a number tonight for example and you were in my situation ?

Well...I'm not hindered by two jobs and rarely have to work outside of business hours, so logistically I'm in a better position when it comes to my answer. When I meet a girl, I tend to try to plan something with her between later that day and/or a few days from the initial meet...and I tend to set the date while getting the phone number.

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