Hey all, hoping you can help me here, or guide me in the best direction. Before we begin, my game has a few small leaks but is tight for the most part. I'm confident and pass shit tests with ease, I joke and use kino without hesitation. In this case, though, I'm stumped.

I met a girl on a day trip with some friends, we flirted, she took a picture of herself and set it as my phone background, so I gave her my number (I just let girls text me first LOL) and went home. This girl's a solid 9 though, so I'm definitely game if she is.

Very next day she texts me and asks me to come over to her place at 9:00pm (fuck yeah right?). I get to her house and she asks me to help her move a few items to her new place (wtf, ok?). So we pack up and drive over to her new place, and we are flirting like crazy, she's calling me a player and the whole nine yards, but these are easy shit tests. So I drop her stuff off and we're talking and I start to initiate kino, but she pushes me away and just keeps talking. I took that as her being playful and tried to initiate again, to which she pushes me away and says, "Hey, thanks for your help but I need to do some stuff and go to bed" (telling me to leave). So I just tell her playfully that I didn't want to spend the night with her anyway and she laughs and I walk out the door.

Next day, she texts me in the morning and asks if I want to "run an errand" with her (wtf?). Of course I say no because I'm not her fucking girlfriend, and I make a counter offer for dinner. Her response was "I don't want to date right now, I'm just looking for a friend." I just tell her, "Guess we'll never know if we'd make a good couple." and tell her to let me know if she changes her mind (don't contact me unless you want a date). So naturally I just move on with life and keep doing my daily routine.

Next day (three days in a row now) she texts me and asks me to "go shopping" with her (fuck that). I already had plans so I tell her straight up that I already have plans with someone that night. She texts back and says, "Why don't you want to hang out with me? We're so much alike, we're perfect together." and I respond, "I'd love to go out with you but you said that's not what you want, and that's fine. I'll just go out and sleep with other girls." and she doesn't respond. At this point she's beginning to waste my time.

Four days go by without her texting. Doesn't matter to me, I've got plenty to keep me occupied.

Then I get a text from her again, this time it's a picture text that's a picture of us two from the day we hung out on the beach together (I look fucking great of course). Her caption to the photo is, "throwback to when you were the worst." (obvious flirting) I respond and say "damn, who's the sexy person on the right?" (which is me). She doesn't respond. (Ok... I'll just go back to my daily routine again.)

Two days later she texts me (she has initiated every single text convo) with lyrics to a song I had mentioned to her when we hung out the first day. I make fun of her and we banter because she totally fucked up the song lyrics and she randomly says "you're so creepy" to which I respond "I tell people the same thing about you" and she replies "Aw you tell people about me?!" and I said "No, people just like to ask why I have a picture of an asian guy in my phone with a double chin" (the picture she took of herself) and she texts back "hahahahahaha life goals" and I say "I see you've set the bar high for yourself " She asks me what I'm doing later in the evening and I tell her "I'm just going to relax and watch netflix if you want to come over" and she doesn't respond again. (What is it with her?)

Next day I see her in our local gym (I have never seen her there before) and she runs up to me and she's like "oh my god its so good to see you!" and we flirt/banter and she leaves, and I do my workout.

Later that night she texts me and asks, "hey what are you doing?" and I say "My refrigerator just broke so I'm eating all my food." (one of my favorites) and she says "hahahaha want to hang out tomorrow?" and I tell her "Only if it's a date and you treat me right." and she doesn't respond again!

^That was two days ago, and I have yet to hear from her again.

I'm all out of ideas. Did I fuck up somewhere? Do you guys have any suggestions? Should I just stop responding to her and move on?

You're gonna lose a lot of girls because of that. And if that's working out great for you right now, you texting them first would work twice as good. Think about it.
That's a bit overkill. You could've just said "I don't do just friends with cute girls".
You may gain some jealousy points if she actually sees you with other women, but you won't get anything if you try "boasting" and bringing that aspect to the foreground verbally. If anything, it does more harm.
Hahah, I like this one.

Anyway, you didn't fuck up man. You didn't look desperate and you handled yourself well. However, She pretty much told you straight up she's not interested in that sense. And you should appreciate that because not many girls will be so upfront about their intentions. And that will save you a lot of time.

So yes, you should stop responding to her, because you want different things.

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Will consider this for the future. Truthfully, I just wait a few days and they almost always text me. If not, then I text them. I've never had a girl show so much blatant interest and yet refuse a date is why this one stumps me so bad.
Good advice here. Clearly hasn't stopped her from texting me every day, but I'll definitely alter this for next time.


You're right, she did. Perfect response, thanks for your help man. It's driving me nuts that she won't stop texting haha, but I'll just let her simmer down over there. Appreciate the post