Very confused about my mid game long term strategy



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PostPosted: Sat Aug 27, 2016 4:11 pm 
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Ok, I'll try to cut it short.

Half of July I saw a girl at a party, I really really liked her, but was not able to talk to her as she went to another party just when I decided to approach.

So, I had to risk the all in, I added her on facebook (a friend of her told me her name), and I straight texted her that she impressed me and I wanted to take her on a date.

She instantly agreed and found my message very nice (something along the line of "I like guys that are very confident and direct").

Now, small problem, she went back home (she's a college student) for vacations for around 50 days.

So literally the day I added her she agreed but she was leaving in few days and I had no time in my schedule to see her.

Now, at this point it may look like one of the many "nothing really happening, we aren't even at stage one", but I noticed that she would like any of my facebook posts, she added me on instagram and started liking my pics and we chatted since then every 5-6 days, mostly me starting the conversation, but few times it was her.

I'd like to tease/talk her a bit and somehow "lower her value" I gave her by going right for the "You impressed me" and putting her on that pedestal.

I know that pedestal she's on is already making things difficult for me, she still seems very open and friendly to me, but I want to avoid at all the friend zone and I feel like I need to give her some challenge, but I also feel like I need to do it still "virtually" before we meet at start of september.

I'm also kind of unsure if I should straight avoid contacting her (I fear dull chat, "what's up", and boring conversation) but it is also hard to come with something with somebody I don't really know well (so it's hard to tease, make observations and stuff).

She seems to like chatting with me as she pointed more than once that she laughs a lot when we chat (she even said once that she was laughing like an idiot and could not stop).

Need help, this girl really impressed me (and I rarely am impressed by looks, she isn't a real 9, she's more like a 7, but she really is my type and I rarely like somebody phisically that easily).


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 27, 2016 4:22 pm 
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Quit making yourself so available. She will be back and you can contact her then.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2016 2:54 am 
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That's what happened.

I decided I was not going to text her no matter what.

She texted me yesterday, we chatted a bit, we talked about stuff like music, ecc, and she hinted that it's going to be funny (I loved that she used the word funny and not interesting) to listen to my CDs in my car.


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