I've been in a few relationships in the past but nothing has hurt more than this relationship that I use to have with this girl since she has cheated on me. I demonstrated value and did screen her along with build comfort but something must have went wrong. I talked to her over a month and I use to sweet talk her by telling her my day will be brightened when I will see her, I feel lonely without her and that she is absolutely beautiful plus other things relating to sweet talking. She reacted well but I don't know if you should sweet talk a girl since the girl knows she has you for good. Do you think sweet talk is bad during comfort and do you think it should be avoided?

Thanks

She should be sweet talking you since SHE cheated on you. Why should you be demonstrating value to such woman?

Get some self respect bro, this is the most saddest mindset I have read on here for a while.

The more you reward her bad behaviour with sweet talk and affections, the more your relationship will destroy itself. You might be happy right now, but it is on a decline and it will not end well for you.

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I use to sweet talk her before she cheated on me. This thread is about can sweet talking lead to her not valuing you. N wtff dude I didn't sweet talk her after she cheated read the question properly. I think sweet talking can lead to her not valuing you

I think you're confusing sweet talking with pathetic talking.

You feel lonely without her?
Your day will brighten when you see her?

Is that your idea of an attractive man? A man so frail his happiness and inner state of accomplishment is entirely dependent on his girlfriends' affection?

Look dude, nobody wants to date an emotional leech. That shit is draining. Tenfold for a woman since as a man you're expected to be the masculine side of the relationship, obviously. This type of melodramatic shit is anything but masculine. And you're making her deal with it?
Damn.

I mean no wonder she cheated on you. Her vagina was running the risk of going barren being exposed to that kind of diabetic "sweet" talk.

Get your shit together. And take no offense from my post. I mean none. You need the tough love.

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So you're in the minority.

WHY WOULD YOU BE WITH A GIRL THAT CHEATED ON YOU?

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Thanks dude a lot I really appreciate it. I finally see the flaws in my game. Comfort means connecting with her not being a total sensitive jerk

'Comfort' is irrelevant with your girlfriend! They have to be comfortable with you to be in the relationship in the 1st place. Stop trying to sound like a pick up artist and just be normal and identify the flaws in your mindset that seems to reward bad behaviour.

There is zero game element to any of this.

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Did you even fuck this girl?

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Yh bro like 7 times

You're in a long term rship with a girl when you've only fucked her 7 times...???

Christ

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depends on the type of sweet talking you're doing. If i've had some good sex with a girl, it ends with sweet pillow talk. If im getting head from a girl, she might get some sweet talk. If that pussy is wet like a faucet i might be doing some sweet talk. But do remember each one of these scenarios its a different type of "sweet talk."
Hell i even got a chubby one that i keep on the side for rainy days, and we always have "sweet talk" but thats usually nothing sexual

I have a friend that strips. We have the most perverted "sweet talk"

So to answer your question, sweet talk is part of game. When to use it all depends on who you're talking to and what kind of sweet talk you're doing

The sweet talk is just a synonym for 'ass kissing'

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pretty much, thats what it boils down to