Hey brother. Throughout the course of my development, as I grew in love, in authentic confidence, in certainty and centeredness, I accidentally discovered how to connect with anyone.

My friends always joke that I should run for president, because anywhere I go I bump into 2 or 3 people who eagerly greet me and welcome me.

I’m not saying this to brag – quite the opposite.

You see, making friends and connecting with women or people in general was always something I found to be extremely difficult.

It’s not that I was necessarily a loner per se, but I was almost always the friend who was called last…

I was almost always the one who had to make and confirm plans for them to happen…

I was always the one who was an afterthought (I was once uninvited from a party because someone thought it would be better if I simply wasn’t there).

I just always felt like I was on the outside looking in…

But that doesn’t have to be the case.

And after years of trial and error, I’m going to try to break it down with you as much as possible so that you too can go out tonight, connect with just about anyone, have a crazy good time and be the guy everyone wants to hang out with.

How NOT To Connect With Anyone
First let’s dispel the myths…

Because being able to connect with people is not about being super duper incredibly fascinating.

You don’t need to have wrestled bears, cured cancer and know how to juggle midgets to be seen as a cool and interesting guy that both men and women want to be around.

In fact, the deeper you go into it, the more you come to notice that YOU as an independent entity have very little to do with it altogether.

Wait – what?!

Let me explain…

How to Actually Connect With Anyone
I’ve broken down my ability to connect with people in 3 easy to understand steps.

And it looks like this:

1: Breathe

2: Give Love

3: Speak Your Truth

Let’s start with breathing…

Why is breathing so important when it comes to connecting with people? In fact, why is breathing so important in the first place?

Because breathing relaxes you. Breathing grounds you. Breathing brings you back to here and now.

I’ve written extensively about how to breathe properly so I won’t cover it again, but basically put: If you are not relaxed and at ease, you cannot be confident, you cannot be authentic, and you cannot be yourself.

So do yourself a favor and stop taking life so seriously! Relax, everybody is your best friend!

Now, why did I say earlier up that to connect with anyone, you have to forget yourself? Why isn’t it really about you?

Because connecting with people is as simple as offering love!

Understand: It is the essence of charm to make everyone feel special, unique and appreciated in your presence.

No one wants to be around a glass half full kind of guy – men and women included! Stop going around like a beggar hoping people will make you feel complete – that’s not what they’re here for.

Put the glass down, brush the dust off and go and be magnificent! Sit and listen to others, praise others, be interested in others, make others feel important and loved.

Finally, speaking your truth is hugely important if you want to learn how to connect with anyone.

If you offer love and have the courage to express yourself freely – your thoughts, your opinions, your curiosity, your awe of life, your mission, your philosophy, all of it… You will find people wanting to hear what you have to say.

I say outrageous things all the time! I question, I throw people off, I praise, I joke, I tease and I laugh uncontrollably. And yet, people naturally gravitate towards me.

Why?

Because when you express yourself freely and authentically, you give others permission to do the same.

All of a sudden, they can drop the mask, the facade, the barrier, and truly be themselves right from the get go.

Additionally, speaking your truth is what differentiates you from the proverbial ‘nice guy’ who has no opinions of his own, no edge so to speak.

You become a gust of fresh air in a damp room.

That my dear friend, is how you connect with anyone.

Try this out tonight and let me know how it goes!

Your fan,
Pat Ananda

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