Hi I'm new to this but have picked up numbers and had one night stands with nice women infrequently. I'm looking to add core game, so that I have the confidence and belief that every time I go on a date I know I'll get results.

Last night, I went on a date and after she sent me a message saying she feels bad and wants to let me know now that she didn't feel a spark between us so wants to leave it as that. We met as I initiated contact with her on a social media site. After a few messages, she then started texting my phone number as it was listed on my profile and I was taking a while to reply back to her messages on the social media site.

After a week of texting, she came across as being needy looking for a serious relationship and very eager to meet. So I took her out last night.... went to a bar had a drink each, then went to a mexican had another drink and bite to eat. Conversation was flowing at a steady pace and we both seemed to be getting on.

I didn't attempt any techniques like the cube or anything like that as she's only a 6.5 out of 10 at best and felt my natural game would be enough for her to like me.

She said there was no spark, chemistry. What the hell is that supposed to mean? She must have thought I was fairly attractive, otherwise she would not have wanted to have gon
e on the date so much.

How can I create a spark on a date, what is the easiest way to make a girl sit back and go wow he's what I'm looking for? What sort of questions and conversations should I be having?

I know its a general question which could lead to various answers, but surely there's a fundamental set of rules I can follow?

Please help.

Sparks are created by escalation. Demonstrate that you are sexually attracted to her and she will feel the spark.

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What Jack said.

She can feel that spark within a moment of ur first interaction.

This.

Also flirt, tease, challenge.

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Thanks Jack... looking back at it. What you said makes sense, I don't think I made it obvious to her that I was attracted to her and I didn't make enough effort for her to feel it.

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