Hey guys, So i have been on a few dates with this girl i met on Tinder. First date was a drink after work on the Monday. Her body language was SPAM a lot, and i could read her interest in me. She has been on 1 previous date already on Tinder and was weary of going on another one. The last guy was constantly texting her and this was a big turn off for her which Is understandable. HE also tried to follow her home after the first date which is also a bit weird.
Anyway, during the date, we seemed to click and she told me she wanted to see me again so that saturday we met up for a second date. I took her to a restaurant, then headed for more drinks where we made out (kissed) and flirted with each other all night. We hit one of the clubs, an indie night where we were all over each other. We left around mid night and she text me at the end of the night when she got home (i went home)
"Home
had a great night, need to sober up a bit before bedtime! see you soon xx"
The next week we text each other and i suggested i cook and she would come round with a bottle of wine. Today i had to re arrange as my house mate had decided to only just let me know he was having the kids round to see him, which meant i had to change plans. I messaged her to confirm tomorrow:
"Hey hows work? Slight set back tomorrow, my house mate has his kids visiting so i won't have the house to myself. He usually has them on Friday! Got 2 options, can either go for some drinks and do this crazy golf and grab some food
(this was originally date 2 idea before we just decided to go for food as she was working late) , or i can bring the ingredients for the meal I was going to cook to your's? I've got my car so either is good :0) x"
her response a few hours later was: "hey, it's not looking so good tomorrow after all, gonna leave work soon which means leaving some stuff i have to do tomorrow. can we try another time? Next weekend no good though as ill be in blackpool
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I know its her birthday next week you see and she will be going home to visit her parents. I want to play the game, but also having difficulty reading into her response.
She seems keen but am worried i could get to soft and blow what we have had so far (i have a knack for fucking things up, been single 7 months now and well out of touch with the game)
I guess i am overthinking everything as i like her
Hope you can help guys,
Matt
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