So, I had a buddy say to me last night(as nicely as he could have put it): "I've studied you, I don't know what it is, when you open your mouth the girls just leave"... Ugh, hahaha, their might have been substances involved.

Point being: opening and attraction, check. Seduction and dance game, check.
Mid-comfort game, I need work.

Are there any good posts and/or resources on the mid 90% of the game which is comfort/rapport building? Seriously need to get that shit handled.

~Casual

Just out of curiosity, when you interact with a woman what goes on in your head?

"Ok, now we're in the comfort stages".
"Entering rapport building phase"
"Nearing the hook point"
"Time to close according to action plan gamma-dash-five"

Like is thas the process?
I'm asking because personally I've never bought into this bullshit. I know Mystery wanted to make an exact science out of an art-form, but that doesn't mean he succeeded.

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I don't like Mystery, I never have, it was way to technical for me. My game is more natural/lifestyle type. But, I have been back in school and not studying game lately. I took my "pick-up" social skills from a 3 to a 7or8, I know how to be very social now, make friends w/ bouncers, classmates, etc.

When I go out, I have fun and an idea what I am doing. However, maybe I am just in scarcity and it comes off, or my "comfort/rapport-building" phase with women just sucks. It's like, I can open, hit, attraction, their in, and then I don't know what to do, or how to just talk to the girls like people after that...

So any advice/guides on the middle comfort phase would be useful. I use to use the time lapse, and future-pacing (ie- "planning a move, or future skiing trip together or something") back when I was getting laid somewhat regurarly and going out a lot. However now, I just seem to have forgotten what I used to do. And also, comfort was always the hardest part for me.