Alright, so my boys think I should go on this site and ask everyone for advice on my situation. A bit about myself: pretty smart guy, pretty fit but not steroid crazy big, and I don't take life too seriously, also have a tendency to ADD.

Alright so after my last relationship, I started going out to bars and clubs which was really fun, but couldn't get a lay out of it. Then I got that tinder thing, which was cool, boosted my confidence abit. Then I decided to go on tinder dates.

Finally, I found a hot girl off tinder but she was so damn quiet, I had no idea how to get her to open up, I was just wondering if there is a strategy to get a girl to open up like 90 percent of the time, needless to say, I got a hug at the end of the night (awe). Literally, tried getting her to talk about herself, teasing, teasing myself, nothing!

Also I'm currently texting a girl who I constantly have witty banter with, almost pissing myself when we talk, but I can't seem to get her to hang out (going for the high-five after the hug on this one).

Any advice would be awesome. Thanks!

Takes two to tango dude.

It's not your job to do other people's jobs. If she shows up on a date and acts like she doesn't wanna be there, end it early and find some other girl that will meet you half way.

If you'll get any good at this you'll get tired of chicks than can only talk about the latest Kardashian scandal, their favorite salon or how everyone tells her she looks like Scarlet Johanson.

Point is, there are plenty of beautiful women in the world. And most don't have the personality of a desk lamp.

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She is just quiet. Some people are extroverted and some people are introverted. Game isn't going to change that. Lead to the bedroom regardless or ditch her if it's too intense for you. It's not hike job to change people. It's your job to find compatibility

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