This girl at work is making me chase her. I've already asked her out twice, once she cancelled and the next she said she was busy. (Also, I told her I might have to cancel last second because my cousin is visiting from out of town and she is my priority.)

I text her for smoke breaks, literally the minute she should come with me, and she is compliant and flirtatious and shows interest by asking a ton of questions and re-initiating conversation when I drop it.

Should I stop texting her for the smoke breaks to get her to chase a little so she'll be more likely to go on a day 2 with me? I think that has to be my next move.

Try it.

Switch up actions, and the game switches. Sometimes for the better, sometimes not, but you won't know unless you try.

And if she texts you for a smoke break say something like " I'll get you on the next one. I have a lot to do here "

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Now she seems to be using another guy in the office as her smoke buddy and literally goes out there with him the time she knows I get off of work so I see them. Also, found out she has a boyfriend of 4 years she never once mentioned. Interested and playing games? Or attention whore and playing games?

As my pop, a late great pimp told me.. " Son, you ain't a player until you get played "

What can you do? Just pay it no mind and continue living life.

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That is the single best quote and response ive ever read, I tip my hat sir.