Recently had email communications and though professed being nervous to meet for for coffee as she would want to sleep with me. Now gone cold and said not to contact again as he is a nice guy. Blah blah. Have sent a few mails more trying to temp her but no reply. Any tips?

Yes, stop being needy. GFTOW

Neediness is a desperate need for affection.
The extreme need for affection that will cause a person to take someone else's spouse, sleep with the same sex, bang an HB6 or lower, or engage in masturbation.
To be needy is a guy who needs attention no matter what the cost. A person that doesn’t have much confidence and will bug the living shit out of some poor girl just for a little attention. They are always suspicious, aggravating and generally become an AFC.
Needy is desperate, plain and simple!
This is caused by the more common affliction, Lackapussy,
Lackapussy:
Translation from Hawaii. Lack of sexual activity among males.
Im suffering from LACKAPUSSY.
A frequent and sometime fatal disease, its causes are lack of use of the male organs resulting in extreme neediness, hairy palms, and wheezing.

The combinations of these two problems WILL compound each other, causing you to give up the male persona.
The only known remedy is YOU!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.