Hi guys,

So went to the club tonight, and started dancing with this chick who was dancing alone, she was obviously interested in me so i started to get really close to her grinding and stuff...so I dance for a while touching her and stuff and then i ask her to sit down and we talk for a minute, she does'nt say much me being the quiet guy that I am dont say much either and then she says she is gonna go back and dance I get her number tell her that I have to go in 5 mins and leave.

So I have a few questions

1. How the hell do you dance escalate??? I mean what do you once you start dancing and touching each other?? I was so clueless about this. I just kept pulling her close to me.
2. How do you go for the kiss??? she kept moving all the time I gave her an awkward kiss on the cheek.
3. Regarding the conversation that I had with her, I asked her where she was from and what she did etc she dint say much back and pretty soon we had this silent moment, I am not great at conversation somebody please help me out with this.

So what do i do now ?? I already texted her saying it was nice to meet her, how do i proceed from here and what should I have done better tonight?

I'll make this brief because there are better guys on here that'll help you out more...**enter skills360**

1. The whole point of dancing with a girl is to escalate her and get her aroused...just touch the girl...push the boundaries and see how far you can get...let her pace the whole interaction but she can only do that when you push it to the limit. Start off with basic shit like give her a spin, lock hands, put her hands around your neck...don't focus on pulling off dance moves, that's needy bullshit...just concentrate on the girl and arousing her...enter a "bubble" so to speak...this will create lots of sexual tension...this is good! On the dancefloor it'll be hard to communicate verbally which is also good...non verbal seduction is where it's at! Pulling girls close is good but you gotta be careful not to invade her personal space too much or too early...respect the girl...start with the simple basics and elevate when you know you can...you can then start to kino other areas such as her neck, back, torso, legs, ass etc... Just be calm and confident and she will feed off your vibe. Have strong eye contact, smile all that good stuff.

2. There is no magic pill to get her to kiss you...if she is attracted she will kiss you as log as you're not a dumbass...just bide your time...if you do go for this kiss and she turns away, don't react to it...just smile, brush it off and try again after you escalate more...if the girl is still standing in front of you believe me it's still on...she would be long gone if she didn't like you...just relax and take it slow.

3. Well tbh if you two were on the floor you shouldn't have taken her off the floor to have a convo unless you had made out with her or something...you just released all the tension that was built while dancing...but while conversating, don't ask interview style questions...making statements is far more intriguing and inviting...talk about interesting things like what unique things you do when you're free, plans for the summer...all that shit...be funny and interesting and of course flirty and sexual...escalation is still important here, if not more important...don't worry about "ugh what do I do now, do I kiss her, do I touch her"....that vibe you have will be transmitted to her and it'll turn her cold.

As I said there are members here that'll help you out more, this is just a rushed and brief reply by myself.

-Dilla

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If anything escalating on the dance floor is way easier since dancing is all about being physical and being in sync. NOT TALKING.

Talking is what fucked you up. Escalation is an effective attraction tool. If you do it well enough she will be attracted enough to follow you to the bar or outside for "fresh air". Then you can verbal game and do what you gotta do to get her home.

Last night, I was chatting up a girl and the seating area arrangement was too messed up for a smooth escalation, I pretty much gamed her and said "let's go dance" then I escalated physically and it was on like donkey kong.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_jStE6-uQgQ Check this video out, it may help you.

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Thanks for your responses...but can anyone suggest any pua resources to learn how to make interesting conversation?? i am an introvert not shy but dont talk much so need some improvement in that department.

Anyway what am i supposed to do next ? i texted her after i got her number saying hi, she replied with hi. where do we go from here ? do I take her out? do we go to a nightclub? next weekend? i have no clue I have never had a relationship or taken a girl out. And also what should frame of interation be like when i meet her? I mean we had a lot of touching going on when we were dancing so at what point are we at when we meet again?

btw should i textgame her till we meet again.

Jeez man, google/YouTube can answer most if your questions

"How to talk to a girl?"

"How to physically escalate?"

"How to text a girl?"

Don't be lazy and getting everybody else to do it for you.

"Hi" is an obvious lame text to send her, at least make an effort.

However, she replied despite the shit text so it might be on. Just text her and get straight to the point.

"Hey, come for a private drink with me...what does your schedule look like?" (Then arrange a day when you're both free)

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You are right...I will search around the web, thanks a lot for your responses, appreciate it very much.

finger her on the dance floor

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