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1230 views....bang bang! I have been focusing on just living for the now and really detaching from the outcome of things. I am opening up confidently with everyone I approach and doing my best to make every interaction comfortable off the bat. Still have not had a lot of opportunity to kino asap but hey, when it is time, it will come.
It's always kino time dude. There are so many opportunities to kino you wouldn't even call them opportunities, they're just there constantly! You need to realise that it's not about looking for a reason to kino but more having the balls to just touch someone and know what types of kino to use. Use friendly kino when you first meet a girl then work towards more sexual and intimate kino like touching her body... Think of kino as if it were approaching. You just do it.
Stop thinking about the "What if I touch her now" and just do it. Get comfortable with friendly kino like tapping on the shoulder, the arm and a light hug and kiss on the cheek when you say hello. A good way to make the friendly kino natural is to lightly touch her when you make a joke or she makes a joke, just do it for a split second. She thinks nothing of it, it's natural and doesn't come across as an excuse to touch her. Once you're comfortable with that focus on escalating.
I've linked this video too many times but it's pure gold:
Richard La Ruina - Kino Escalation
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kmZa-dtruFI
Try it.
Infact try it exactly as he does it.
CHAT
