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PostPosted: Tue Apr 15, 2014 12:23 am 
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I've went out with this girl a couple times, and I'm pretty sure she likes me. So how can I text her without seeming super boring and losing all attraction. I hate texting, but I might as well text this girl. So other than

"Hey"
"Hey"
"Whatsup/how are you"
"good/Hanging out/ watching tv/ etc"
and any other boring bantar

how do you guys make texting interesting?


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 15, 2014 1:26 am 
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be careful with text game it could either make you or break you, if i was you i would ask to hang out, liek a date (not chill)........but if you just have to text her then try to be interesting, tell her stories that'll make her laugh, ask about her day, tell her bout your day,.....whenever i run out of things to say i usually just say "guess what" and if she say something like 'what" then make up some funny bs.....realize the guys who usually text things like "goodmorning beautiful hope yous letp well" are the ones who are friendzoned, while the guys that say 'what up we need to hang out today" are the ones they like.....

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 17, 2014 10:22 pm 
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when you text your drawing inspiration for your subject matter from a totally different headspace to when your with the girl face to face. So try to get into the mindset of texting is merely a vessel of communication to get you to be face to face with her.

what are you sub communicating when your constantly texting? And when you meet this girl face to face. Have you got stuff still left to talk about that you havent talked about over text...

or do you fall into this mindset " i need to keep the interaction hot in her mind and keep her hooked til i next see her so i can work my real magic " if a light bulb in your mind is flashing now then its time to think about inner game. Modern pick up theory is more about becoming the guy you want to be and having the life you want to live and girls are part of the bigger picture. So becoming too focused on the girls and the outcomes will not make you any better at pick up.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 18, 2014 1:51 pm 
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You can ask her directly out for a date. Don't hesitate.
Try to be direct and it will go perfect.


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 18, 2014 4:29 pm 
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Hey man,

I have a foolproof method to texting.

You Banter two to three messages at MOST. Then you say something like

"HOLY MOLY, craziest thing just happened! I'm gonna call you in 5!"

Call her up and the discussion should look like this:

You: Holy Crap! *fake story*
Her: WOAH!
You: I Know! So whats up... *banter*
Her: Blah Blah Blah
You: What are you doing today?

Set up the date as soon as possible over the phone... get her laughing first.


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 18, 2014 4:48 pm 
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Thanx guys..I hate texting...theres a big time bridge for me wit this girl that I met...so I noticed her text messages started showing lack of interest...So ima use the "guess what" and bullshit story tactic from time to time until I meet up with her.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 8:46 pm 
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Thanx guys..I hate texting...theres a big time bridge for me wit this girl that I met...so I noticed her text messages started showing lack of interest...So ima use the "guess what" and bullshit story tactic from time to time until I meet up with her.
best to avoid too much texting as it can make you seem too keen and eventually it will fizzle out, Try to remain a little bit aloof.

So Play it cool and only reply to her texts. When she does text you set up a date...


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 30, 2014 4:52 pm 
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i met this girl on tinder, seemed pretty cool and lots of similar ideas. on day 2 of texting and deciding on date plans she admitted being on terms of coming back with her ex and would only be available to meet up as friends. leave it or any tips for changing this?


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PostPosted: Sat May 03, 2014 8:46 pm 
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Simple - explain that you're looking for something serious right now and don't have time for "just friends" type meetings. Wish her well with her new guy, and let that be it.

On-again off-again usually doesn't last long. That relationship is on thin ice, and you'll be under it when it breaks.

In the meantime - find somebody else. It's freakin' Tinder...


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