Hey all,
Ive recently gotten inti touch with my former school mate from elementary, who got rly hot. We kicked it off kinda well. Im not sure she is rly attracted or sees me as a friend, but she drove 20 miles to have a coffee and a walk with me and today she left on her lunch break to commute and have lunch with me.

Anyway i rly wanna take her out to see a movie tommorow, but 2 things. First of all its friday and she may wanna go partyin, tho this im not so sure cuz she told me she doesnt like to do that lately. Second, i dont wanna sound needy and txt her every day.

Sticking to the gener knowledge, i was thinking about this type of message to send her

'Dont know about you, but Im tired of this its friday lets get fucked up mentality. Im taking it easy, makinsome time for myself, do some shopping and see a movir afterwards, and ur welcome to join me.'

What dk u guys think ?

Movies make for bad dates, buddy... You can't really talk.

Unless they're on your sofa - in private - where you can escalate and actually pause the movie and talk.

If you know she's into you, just ask her what she's up to.

"I was thinking we should go to X tomorrow night" (again, I'd avoid the movie)... If she says she's busy, who fucking cares... Ask her again next week.

Thnx for the tip. But i rly feel lime seeing a movie with some nice company. May finish it with late night dinner somewhere but id rly enjoy a movie.

I agree with the advice. I only take a girl to a movie if we've already been on a few dates or I'm dating the girl. For first date kind of situations, or for when you're still trying to get in to her pants I don't love a movie, unless it's at your house. I'd much rather say "Hey I found a good movie on netflix, grab some popcorn and come over and watch it with me". You can progress faster at your place, you can get more comfortable etc.

If you're dead set on the movie I'd send something like (I don't like texting, I pretty much always call girls for shit like this). But I'd send something like "I want to go see this movie this weekend. You want to tag along?"

You want it simple and you don't want to seem desperate. You want it to seem like she is receiving time with you, not you begging for time with her.

Oh, and make a damn move. If this chick really drove that far and is going out of her way to see you like that, she's interested. You playing it slow is just going to make her uninterested.

Look at Kezia noble's youtube vid. Best first dates. See if it applies to you. I really know she mentioned movie as a good first date. But why I'm not shure anymore.

Ayght i asked her out not to the movie but some decent wines. She said at she is training tonight and she will see how tired she is. Should i reply ? Im pretty sure if i dont press it she will just flake out. Thing is my friend is going out with a girl he just met so it could be like a kewl doubl date, though i havent told her this yet. I could just tell het to let me know, so i can find a replacement ?