So this gorgeous girl came to stay at mine for couple days in between houses wed hung out a few times before long story short she threw a bunch of IOI's at me we were flirting all day my game was preety flawless negging the shit out of her being very indifferent. should have a few more easy chanches to hang with her , were gonna get a fish together and we both have something to give each other . ive texted her once after she left and she called me " man " a couple times so im not sure what thats about .. theres no way im friend zoned .

so what should I do here should I go the week and not text her or anything just play it cool wait till the weekend and ask to hang out or what

If you have not pulled the trigger yet ... maybe she is getting frustrated waiting for you to make a move ... that's why she is saying "man" ...

The longer you wait to pull the trigger the further you fall into the "friend zone" or "maybe he is gay zone" ...

Therefore, ask to hang out, the sooner the better ... it seems like you guys are getting a long well so that you could probably ask her out whenever ...

When you do ... pull the trigger ... there is no right time to do it ... just be decisive and committed ...

Whenever you question your self ... whether to ask her to hang out or whether you should pull the trigger ... ask yourself "What is the right thing to do?" ... then do it :p.

Sincerely,

Donston

Thanks alot man , ill pull the trigger this weekend , hangout with her and make it happen wish me luck

As soon as a girl calls me "man" I immediately respond with "sure DUDE". This makes them laugh, as they know you're throwing their game back at them.

Trust me, they're reading books and magazines right now that tell them to call you "man" or "dude" to create the exact reaction that you have had... confusion and wondering... bingo, you're thinking about her. it works! so just throw it back at her

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Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.
- Mark Twain

ahah yeah totally , I threw it back at her the first time , second I just didnt reply ahah , Im feeling better about this though , the only question I have is should I not text her until the end of the week when i ask to hang out , dont really have anything else to text i suppose ahah

when do you both plan to hang out? if it's this weekend, then the latest you should contact her will be tomorrow.

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Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.
- Mark Twain

yeah ok cool , I feel if i text today its a little too keen tomorrow is perfect ahah