Met an awesome girl, very cute looking and really hit it off. Using some of the basic PUA knowledge that I know I got her number and been in the texting game for about 2 weeks. She's super into me and our texting conversations are fun flirty and often can be sexual. However, she has a boyfriend which I've discovered doesn't give her enough emotional engagement. I'm assuming he may be good in the bedroom as from what she has described (complained) he hasnt got much a nice personality. Comes across almost possessive.

I've currently developing the Staw Man Method by building up her boyfriend and getting her to tear him down. This has been effective but the issue I face is I am able too meet her in person but only for short times (she works near me so she will see me during lunch break) I've tried a few methods to arrange a date but I always get the same reply "I'm sorry, i cant"

She basically wont go on a date because she knows she will cheat with me. But also wont break up with her boyfriend even though she has an overwhelming desire to &*^$ me.

She admitted that she doesnt love him but cares for him. But she really likes the connection we have and so do I!

Any tips? the best I've gotten is a hug

She also eluded her dis-satisfactory with her current bf and also has flirted with you. This factored with the fact that she has physically met up with you says to me that you need to handle your interactions as high risk = high reward. In other words, you need to be aggressive in initiating and elevating the physical escalation and until she says 'no'. Your seducing skills could be lacking, but if you look up the various ways one seduces girls, there are many.

Ive pushed for us to go out for drink/movie but I get a sorry i cant response. Best I've escalated was driving her home after work.

Shes definitely sexually attracted to me as we have sexted and she litterally talking me through how she would fuck my brains out.

Just cant get her to let go of her BF

I'm no pro at this, still getting my sea legs with the game, but my first impression is to give her some space. Make her persue you. From what you say you already have the upper hand. By pushing to take her out you run the risk of sounding needy. You kinda need to imply nicely how you feel like she's stringing you along. Put it back to her. If she wants to fuck you so bad and is hesitant about cheating on her BF, she needs to shit or get off the pot. If other dudes out here see it differently please chime in but this is my impression.

this is so wrong wrong wrong. Why steal someones girlfriend? You may have with her something or whatever, but there are so many girls singles.

What you should do is to back off. Here is why.
You know her and she knows you. She's attracted to you and you are to her.
She has a BF, until she makes the decision to leave him you are only a devil in her shoulder. Maybe that guy is a great guy and loves her with all his heart.

If you let her go and she comes to you she conveys to your rules. Also You are not the main reason why two people broke up. You will not feel that guilt. or maybe you just don't care about all this things.

Think about what are you doing.

yeah you're pushing and maybe she doesn't want to feel like a slut, make her feel confortable for doing that. however i woulnd't do that! I won't go for girls who have boyfriends
That's my rule number 1.

My take is why not take on the game?
she may feel agreeing to date you is making her the bad one, hence put up the ASD.
give her a better reason to come out, say you got a voucher to somewhere you need to use, etc. At the same time, like they say, give her space.
cheers

Go meet with her ... then do an instant date with out mentioning that it is a date (meaning don't ask for PERMISSION) ... just baby step it and rationalize why she should go ... for example ..
1) Meet her.
2) Say you need to go get some coffee real quick ...
(Rationalize for her): "I really need a coffee right now ... Accompany me real quick to get a coffee ... It will only take a second ... It's just right around the corner"
- The rationalizations are "real quick" ... "it's around the corner" ... "it will only take a minute"
3) Once you get a coffee ... offer her a ride home ...
4) While driving ... say you have to go pick a book or do an errand real quick ... that is near a bar or a food place ...
5) Say you are so hungry that you need to eat something right now ...
(Rationalize for her): "I'm hungry ... I'm just going to stop by at xyz restaurant to grab a quick bite ... It won't take long ... it's on the way ... "
... etc ... etc

The idea is to do an instant dates with out saying it is a date. Don't ask for permission ... just lead ... and try every angle of rationalizing why it is harmless to go with you.
- If the compliance is to big of a jump for her ... then baby step her on the way ... and rationalize some more. You are like an annoying sells person who will not take no for an answer but annoyingly barrage her with rationalizations why she should do it ....
- Rationalizing can be done for make outs as well by saying, "Real quick real quick .. 2 seconds ... " or "It doesn't count as sex" ... if she kissed you little bit but she hesitates ... "I want a real kiss ... are you going to cheat on your bf on a shitty kiss?"

- The point is to make the experience spontaneous and un planned to her, even though everything is planned by you ... To make the hang out, the make out ... the taking her back to your place or alley way .... the sex ... everything where she can rationalize by saying, "We were caught up in the moment ... and it just happened ... "

Lastly, don't ask for permission ... just lead her ... of course no raping please :p ....

Sincerely,

Donston

Depends what you want from the girl. If you want her to be your GF, back off. Do you really want a girl who cheats? Cuz then even if she leaves him for you, you'll always wonder if she'll do the same to you.

If you just want to fuck her or get a fuck buddy thing going, then go for it.

Decide what your agenda is and stick with it.