Hello there, I don't even know if I'm the right thread or site but here goes.

I've been seeing this girl for quite some time around 3 months now we're like really close friend
to the point where she tells me really personal and naughty stuff, she's going out with his boyfriend for 2 years
and she really loved him to the point that she almost went gaga when they broke up and ask me to talk to his boyfriend "but I don't want to get beaten up with a bat". I barely knew the guy we just met like once or twice.

One day we we're talking normally just a friendly chat about sex that escalated in a kissing and eventually ended up doing it. After a day she told it to her boyfriend because she feels really guilty and I do too but I really don't care what happens to her bf, now she's sad depress we still talk but it always end up wanting her bf back I don't have any follow ups on what to do I can't try the ""straw man tactic"" that I read earlier since they already split up or can I?, she told me that she likes me but that's it she just wants to be friend.

any advice on what should I do to get her boyfriend completely out of her mind and have her?

Sorry for the long story, really need some help.
you can call me an asshole but I do want her.

For old love the best is new one. If she is chating with you this way ( about sex and other naughty things ), she might be interested in you. Instead of writing just meet with her and try to do something but be carefull it can broke your friendship.

well yah I want to get out of friend zone but I feel like it's too risky like walking a fine line between life and death on miss you die no respawn point here.

For sure she will find some1 in future, she can't be all the time single and now everything depends on you.

Tell her you can't promise her a relationship just as friends.

well this girl sounds like a brain case but most people are after breaking up with someone they've been with for a long time. so anyways

go out with her and have a fun time, right now your situation is like the shoulder to cry on guy who she has had sex with once. your like the emotional support she wants but she probably forgets what its like to be with anyone else because she has been with her older bf for a long time.

like i said, change it up, when you guys are together your talking about emotionally sad situations (hers) and that's how the relationship has developed and how it is, your the guy she tells her problems. so, go do something fun, she's probably gonna be sad for a while, but the more you play the emotional support role the more youll become that for her which is not good if you want her to be your gf, you need to break that.


and if it doesn't work out, go find another girl lol

kinda did find another one, it's hard I gave up but now she's uh now she wants us together I feel like a nutshell LOL but anyway thanks for the advises and this site really helps

she is really into his boyfriend. just be her friend and respect their relationship.
or else, you can court her if she is really single after the break up of the real bf.

your like stealing something, just wait till she gets over with the present. GOODluck.

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