Please don't think this is a troll because this is actually a very serious matter which is driving me crazy. I really would appreciate any help I can get.


I am 19 years old going on 20 and I'm about 6'3, black, 222 and relatively muscular but I just cant get girls. Growing up I had self esteem issues because people used to call me ugly but as I approached my late teens and started college things changed.

I've had a lot of girls call me attractive and express interest me. I even have guy friends who are indeed straight who say that I am attractive, so I believe it now. However, the problem is that I just can't get girls. I go to college parties and chat with girls and get their numbers and then text and the next day they don't respond... Sometimes I get numbers and starting texting but eventually the girl just stops replying to me altogether or I cant think of a way to get her in bed with me. This happens to me all the time and it's extremely frustrating. I am a virgin. I just don't know to get girls. It bugs the **** out of me.

Also, don't get the impression that I'm a shy and insecure guy. I'm actually known to be funny, outgoing, and confident. None of my friends would believe I typed this email. Please give me advice. I genuinely want to change my life. I don't know what to do. Should I learn pip artistry?

I just wanna enjoy myself and sleep with girls at times and feel wanted by girls.. It's really driving me ****ing crazy. I constantly ask myself "Why can't I enjoy myself?" This is something that I really want to nip in the bud as soon as possible.

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No problem holmes!

This is your main issue: why can't you enjoy yourself? If you have fun, girls will notice and will be approaching you. Because you are the fun guy. Then don't do seducing/focus too much on seducing, girls see this.

Don't text them right away, because you are too busy with other women and other stuff in your life. Sometimes you just forget her. And after a few days, you remembered you met someone. Then you text.

When you text: keep it fun/cocky and clear. No long textmessages, because it is boring. No boring info exchange (you know what i mean) through text message. And meet up. And ESCALATE!!!

Escalate is tough, because you have to leave the comfortzone where you are just a nice guy. I messed up several HB's because i didn't escalate/escalated too late....

What you are experiencing is low self-image. You see, we form our self-image when we
are younger. Based on what you said about being kind of ugly when you were young,
chances are you formed a low self-image about yourself.

Today, even though you became attractive, when you look yourself in the mirror, you don't
see the attractive self, you see the ugly-duck self when you were a kid.

Your self-image is comprised out of your beliefs you hold about yourself.

Thats why when you're texting with girls, they can feel your limiting beliefs, because you're
projecting them through you words.

If you want to change your self image, you can use some NLP techniques for that, and discover
what beliefs you have about yourself.

When you change your self-image, and you start seeing yourself as you are today, your situation
will change. Women will be attracted to you, you'll feel better about yourself and you'll have
a normal life.

If you want, I can help you out a little bit. If you're interested, let me know on pm.

Phantom

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