Hi all fellow PUAs.

I am in dilemma now. HB7.5 was showing lots of IOIs initially and we even made out. She took the initiative to leave the VIP area at the club and gave me her HP number. Our initial sms exchanges were very lively and i tried to ask her out on a ice cream date. She gave me her home address and i was ready to pick her up.
However 3 hrs before our meeting she cancelled on me. She was recalled for duty
the next day at 6am and henceforth would like to reschedule to another day.

Our recent sms are as follows

Me: Hey u hitting the clubs this weekend ?

HB7.5: Maybe. What about u ??

Me: Will be going. Have u been to club XXXX ?

HB7.5: Yeah. Been there a few times.. Not bad.

Me: Hahaha. Not bad only? Come with me i'll make it awesome..

HB7.5: Yeah!! But i'll be touching down at 2300. ( PS: she works as a stewardess)

Me: U mean on saturday ?

HB7.5.No on Friday tomorrow.

Me: Doesn't matter.. Coz i will be going on saturday night..

HB7.5: Hahahahaha

Me: What are u fav clubs ?

HB7.5: Mink and Filter

Me: Change of place. i am going to club XXX and will club hop. Text me
if u are around the area..

HB7.5: i won"t be going out on saturday as i have a early sunday flight.

Me: Working on a sunday !! Guess i'll seduce u next time.

HB7.5: Yeah! Seduce me next time then.

Me: HAHA. Definitely.. U are the gal who put a smile on my face @ 2330.

HB7.5: Good night

2 days later i text her

Me: Hey i hava fren. She wants to join the same industry. Silkair or Scoot is better ?

HB7.5: Scoot.

Me: wow must be true coming from a silkair stewardess. So how long have u been with silkair?

HB7.5: 2 years d

Me: So wathca doing for weekend ?

HB7.5: Meeting my gal frens for coffee.

Me: Sounds relaxing. i'm going for something exciting. Paintball!!

1 day later

Me: Have a good sunday ahead !

10 hrs later

HB7.5: same here!! M just landed!!

Me: Haha.. U sounded like u just landed on the moon..

Me: rest well.. Good night..

no reply.

Please advise did i fuck up ? What should i do ? Her schedules are very unstable
it's really hard to fix a date. Looking forward to some sound advise.

Thank you & Best Regards

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If u know urself and ur enemy u need not fear the results of a 100 battles.

i try stop myself befor sending a text and ask is this lame shit that would annoy me? if yes I dont send.

Don't take this to heart ... but there isn't anything unique in your game, here.
You're just asking too many questions... laying question upon question on her - it's not very exciting to be honest. This is why she's seemingly not interested, my friend!

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What do u propose i do now ?

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If u know urself and ur enemy u need not fear the results of a 100 battles.

I'm guessing she's not interested.. If I was you I would keep it calm for 2 months. Keep improve your game & your avatar. After that try her again!

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You should read this stuff, he's a boss in texting:

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Nothing is perfect. Life is messy. Relationships are complex. Outcomes are uncertain. People are irrational.

Hey guys

Just an update. I know the HB loves ice cream so i did an experiment by sending her a text.

Me: Hey there!! i'll be going for ice cream this week. Would u like to join me ?

Text was send at 530. i have a delivery report indicating that she had received and read the msg at 535.

No reply.

1145pm. 6hrs later

HB: OMG!! Ice Cream!! But too bad i'll be going back for weekends.

Is she trying to play hard to get ? Should i freeze her out now?

Please advise.

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Hi Guys

An update on the freezeout. I have not text her for an entire week. But during this week she did not initiate a text to me. I reinitiate text thru wasapp instead.

Me: Hi wanna earn so extra $ ?
HB: Yeah! how to ?
ME: i need 2 models for a event. 4hrs 300 u keen ?
HB: which day ?
Me: Thursday.
HB: cant have to work.
Me: sharks need models urgently. help me look around.
HB: yeah. i will ask around and let u know.

10mins later ( i already have models but just wanna test her)

Me: ask u which models looks best among the 5 ( send her the pics of the 5 models)
HB: 3 and 4 best
HB: what do u think ?
Me: 3 and chloe!
HB: Hahahah. nice
Me: gtg nights
Hb: nights. take care!

Wanted to get her to a day 2. i text her to hang out
Me: What ya doing weekend
HB: nothing much.
Me: i be hitting MBS club saturday night
HB: i got flight on sunday morning
Me: if u can sneak out drop my MBS and find me
HB: yeah sure!!

3 days later sick of having this dragging for so long
i text her the following

Me: U know i like u and i know u like me, let's do something about it?
HB: Hahahaha but we should get to know each other better first
Me: i am packed this week. Next week ?
HB: ok

What should i do from here ? Last try before i axe her ? she is busy but this crazy schedule is affecting my game.

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If u know urself and ur enemy u need not fear the results of a 100 battles.

I don't blame you. Most pick-up theories don't talk about texting in details, and I myself used to be soooo bad at it, even when overall my game was improving. But take this advice:

Texting is not for comfort building and asking stupid questions all the time. It is for sexual escalation

Someone already posted this link here, but anyway. Read this. It is the golden shit of texting.

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"Bros before hoes"

Relationship guide: extended-relationship-guide-vt170687.html

http://wayoftheplayer.com/become-a-player/instinct

I personally wouldn't use sms'ing much for conversation like that, at least not if I don't know her well. Sms is a way to set up a time for meeting in person.

Could be wrong. But I get annoyed if a girl sends me a shitload of sort of pointless texts, so why wouldn't girls get annoyed by it as well?

She responded best to the direct so be direct again. Direct approach requires a care free attitude and outcome independent frame of mind.

Don't worry about her stalling. Maybe it's her time of month, maybe she is busy or maybe she is testing you. Does it matter why? It gives you the opportunity to display how you handle such a situation.