| Hello all,
So i am new here. I was always a shy guy in high school and i have only recently started breaking out of my shell. In the last two months i have obtained around 12 numbers from all relatively hot girls.
A lot of times girls will agree to hang out the same night i get their number, and then i will normally fuck up and text them asking if they want to hang out. I notice now that i should probably call to set dates. I am also noticing that i am not very good at texting.
My previous experience with trying to set "study" dates has been so-so. My professor threw us into groups to prepare for a test and she threw me in a group with all girls. I noticed one of the girls was talking very low and quiet towards me and she seemed to be a little nervous or something. So when we were leaving i walked with her out the door and we kinda both were walking and talking aimlessly and both of us noticed that neither of us were headed toward either of our destinations. But nonetheless, i got her number and we met at starbucks. I didnt get much kino in, besides us sitting real close and rubbing legs, and when i left i said goodbye, and walked away. She said something else and i turned around and gave her a halfassed hug and said goodbye again. She spoke to me in class once or twice again, but she never answered any of my texts. I admit i kinda forced her to go to starbucks with me, i was pretty damn needy with my texts. However, when it first started off we were very flirty with our messages to each other. It was just my needy ass that effed it up and i didn't give her enough space. Not to mention, she was legitimately busy with NBA all star weekend in orlando, seeing as she was a fine girl that worked in the arena, i just couldn't comprehend that she was busy with work at the time.
Now i am noticing that if a girl flakes on me or falls back on her plans to hang out, i normally just quit speaking to them. I will occasionally try to invite them to parties just to up the female to male ratio. A lot of times the younger girls will come out, but the girls that are the same age as me will want freebies or special SPAM, which i refuse to give if they arent putting out that poontang pie.
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So enough of my background and all that damn text.
Earlier this week on Tuesday i came into Humanities class and this really cute girl came and sat next to me. I would rate her at a 7 or 8. She is of some latino descent and she has a lot of cute freckles/beauty marks on her face. She has nice brown eyes and my only discrepancy is that she has some crowding on her top teeth in the front. Its not bad or out of whack and thankfully the crowding is symmetrical and the teeth invert in at the same angle and not in some wierd cockeyed way.
Anyway, she is very nervous around me, i ask her simple questions about time and such and she will straight up embarrass herself. She is very low spoken and shy and the first day i met her it was hard to have a conversation with her because she was not talking very much. However, she was mirroring my movements. I would sit up, she would sit. I would sit back, she would sit back. I would put my hand to my face, she would do the same thing. She also didn't hold back from looking at my book, but i think she was mostly checking me out.
So today i had class again and she sat next to me once again. She again used my book and looked at my laptop to see the chapter review questions. We chatted here and there. I specifically asked her if she wanted to help me with my paper and she sort of smiled and stretched her face out in this weird exaggerated way and began to say something. But i decided to cut her off before she goofed up again and i told her she could just give me her email or number and handed her my phone. So she typed it in and handed it back to me. She also has a sister that sits next to her and i feel is sometimes making it harder for me. Another big bugaboo is that i normally ask a girl her name and tell her my name and shake their hand, but this time i didn't do that. I didn't even formally introduce myself!!!
So i really don't want to mess this up. My mom is going away this weekend and i would really like to see if i can go all the way with this one. I think i have relatively good experience with openers and getting numbers. I just need help transition my phone game to an actual date and then while on the date i need to initiate kino without creeping her out or moving to fast for her.
Again i need help:
-Texting or calling a shy girl who gave me her number to "study/help me format my paper"
-Getting her to accept some type of meeting or date
and i don't want to get too ahead of myself but i will need to work on my kino big time.
Thanks again for reading all that damn text, i obsess over details, but i really want to get this right, or atleast learn a lesson or two here if i fail.
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