Hey guys,

I met a girl in the club 2 weeks ago, I gamed her and she was showing a lot IOIs (playing with her hair, her arms around my shoulder, laughs at my jokes, high 5s....etc.). I befriended her brother as well and the people around her, we share same interest as well. She gave me her number at one point, then she kept telling me to call her when I come over to Seoul (I live in a different city, I go there in the weekends). I left an hour later.

We also agreed to have lunch together the next day (more like she suggested that) and asked me to call her to remind her. So I did, she didn't pick up, I thought no big deal, she might still be sleeping. Few days later, I call again, she picks up it sounded like she was in a meeting or something, so I thought she will call me back, never happened.

Do think I shall text her or call her again?

peace,
Mixture

Try sending her a blank text. If that doesn't work, I'd say move on.


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my plan was to move on, but wanted to see if there is anything else i can do. I think sending the blank text will do as a last move.

Thanx

Stick with your original plan and move on. When she told you, "call me to remind me about lunch" when it was HER idea (according to you), that should have been a red flag to you. What she really meant was, "I'm just going to say ok to be nice, but I really have no intention of meeting up with you." The fact that she never called you back after the 2nd time reveals what kind of priority you have in her life. If you two agreed to have lunch, and she flaked, you need to give her the boot. No bitch is worth chasing who wastes a man's time like that.

You could have maybe saved this by calling her out on her flakiness and teased her about it, but instead you let her take control again after the 2nd phone call. Don't kid yourself man, move on already.

This is my biggest problem with Korean girls. I get the interaction going, great talks, fun, games, drinks... then THEY give my their phone number cuz they think i'm so awesome but the next day, that night or a week later, I send the message or call and no answer. I don't know where i f*** up... I started to give up and just go for an instant date to the norebang or go eat some hye-gang-kuk. they always laugh when i bring it up and u can keep DHV-ing in these new locations.

You gotta next this bitch

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Don't take it personally bro. Just use this situation to learn from it. You obviously have good game if she was giving you signs and gave you her number. Like I said before though, you made the mistake of letting her take control when she told you to call her to remind her. When a girl tries to do something like that, tease her about it. I usually go with, "Whats wrong? Your Alzheimer's starting to kick in?"

Another thing is Asian girls are wired a little differently. They're accustomed to being pampered by men so they get to choose who they see and who they don't. It's not your fault, its their culture. Whenever I go out or go on facebook, I see how the men talk and treat Asian women like they're little puppy dogs begging for a doggy treat, and the women eat it up because it's exactly the position they want to be with men. I cringe whenever I see that kind of behavior from a guy. Don't be one of them.

What I would have done was called her to tell her you'd be at the place (regardless if she planned on meeting you or not). If she ended up being a no show, you'd still get to enjoy a meal and have a chance to game another girl in that area. One failure one day doesn't necessarily mean you won't find success another day. Good luck with your future endeavors my friend.

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