Thanks to anyone and everyone who helps me! (it means a lot to me)

Basically I have horrible text game. I cant get any emotional responses without saying something sweet. I cant get the girls to WANT to text me. Itll be such a boring conversation cause im putting in so much effort into making it work. Then when I dont put any effort in and try to sound all "like I dont care" the conversation just dies faster. I need some expert advice/help!
Thanks!

[specifically this applies to this one girl -who I like alot (nikki)- and we basically had something but i fucked it up) before my text game was just as bad and I really need to up it drastically because shes a major texter-theres alot to this story so if you need me to explain more then i will]

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TOJ

Texting is the best way to screw up. Preferably, I only text to set up logistics or to say thank you for last night.

Some rules I try to follow when texting are:

Take longer time to respond than her.

Only reply to one of the things she said in the text.

Write shorter than her

Don't text her more than she does you.

Don't be needy. Neediness in text is probably the worst kind of neediness.

The thing is that it is very hard to build rapport with texting. Therefore you should try to get your talks over the phone or in person. If you have bad phone game, start calling some of your friends or family to idly chat, that has helped my phonegame

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No matter what, I must live without regret

Life is good

Live it for yourself

Thanks Man! Sounds good, yeah my phone game is pretty crappy so Ill get to it! =]

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TOJ

I agree with Swedishguy says.

But what I like to do whenever I'm doing my text game, since like Swedishguy said it's hard building rapport over text. All I do is keep the text conversations short, but keep a goal in mind when you're texting. Try to drift it towards getting her to meet up with you. You're texting with a goal in mind (To get her to come over, meet-up, or something). Instead of texting randomly trying to think of random shit to say for who knows how long.

Besides, talking and gaming in person is way more fun.

other than the excellent advice already given, there are 2 points basically.

make her think. and by that I don't mean type out an encyclopedia on philosophy, obviously ! girls like getting surprised so say things she won't expect, humorous, witty it doesn't matter. and then back off a bit, let her stew in it for sometime.

under no circumstances reply more than she does.