So I've known this girl for a few months. We work together. She's 23 I'm 30.

I have enough dates to keep me busy but I actually like this girl. At work it's busy and I hardly get chance to talk to her. She added me on FB and I started chatting with her one night, a bit of small talk about movies and family.

A couple of days later I sent her an inbox message like "Let's go for a drink sometime" something basic like that.

She replied, "Yeah sounds good (smiley face)". I was busy and didn't get back to her for a few days but I said ok, what's your number? She left it a few days and said "I didn't see your last message til now, it's 07 etc"

I had a wild couple of weeks out and about pulling milfs but i kept encountering this girl at work but not having much opportunity to talk to her.

A few days ago I texted her saying "are we gonna go for that drink before you turn into a scouser?" (in reference to her applyin for a job in liverpool. No answer after 3 days and I haven't seen her since. Going to be seeing her at work tomorrow. ( I also have a date with a POF fatty tomorrow night). Practice, you know.

I'm thinking to play it cool and be like, "You are so rude!!!!, ignoring my texts, I'm not talking to you anymore" in a jokey way.

Therte's always plenty of fatties but I do like this girl. Not in a oneitis way but she's definitely girlfriend material.

How would you play it?

Addendum: I think she knows I've been out whoring myself about. She knows I have been with a few women since I met her. Should I be straight and say how much I like her? I think with my reputation, it might work to my advantage to be clear about my desire to be with her rather than just getting with her.If you knows what I mean.

I'm not a stud by any means. Fat borderline alcoholic but I have some brains and charm, never fails with the 40something milfs.

I really like this girl though and don't want to fuck it up. I wouldn't be too bothered if I got rejected but any advice will be considered.

you work with her, she has already shown some dis-interest, this seems like a fairly bad idea, plently of other girls out there that won't have a social/economic impact on you if things go poorly, but you have already invited her out and asked for her number, it is in writing and she is not stupid, she obviously has read your messages and chosen to pretend that she has downsyndrome, just move on