Hi guys,

I met this girl online on a casual sorta dating site thing and got talking to her and we get on well. But im just having trouble actually setting up a meet with her, I think she might have issues with meeting people ''from the internet'' anyway but she has since deleted her account on that site but we still text, and the convo is good and i dont think im getting any competition from guys online anymore since she deleted her account. But that whole thing isnt really the issue, she says she spends most of her time studying for exams that she has coming up so doesnt really have any free time. So really I wanna know how to handle this situation, do i just keep sending her casual convo texts until her exams are over or just ditch the whole thing?

Thanks

Rokkettzz

I have a text relationship with a girl for awhile that didn't want to meet up, what I did for that was two things. One, I moved from casual convo to more intimate convo. Things like, "What do you dream about doing with your life?" Become more intimate, lead the conversation into relationships.

Second, you might start talking about hanging out with friends, and find some club, or some public space, where you're going with friends, and that she should bring some friends of her own, and you two can meet up there. A lot of times it's a nervousness of meeting a total stranger. You need to dissuade that nervousness and make it seem casual and friendly, like meeting each other face to face is the most logical and simple thing to do.

Also, if any of her subjects you have any knowledge on, you might want to suggest that you'd like to help her study at a bookstore--using the principle of consistency against her.

thanks man, your advice has led the convo onto topics that girls like talking about (travelling and careers) ill just have to try and keep the convo going until these exams are over (i will also have to try and ascertain when that is exactly....)