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so there's this girl i like and shes given me two dates shes free on today and coming Saturday. i didn't say anything today and a planning to make a move to set a date for Saturday. thing is Im going back to uni on Sunday and wont be back to the town where i met her till two weeks by which time someone else will get to her. so i need a good game plan to kiss-close with her or at least build attraction so she want me while im at uni. im planning to take her to a cafe and then movies then maybe back to hers ( all done subtly of couse like i didn't plan it). so routines, shit tests i need to be wary of, and how to kino properly etc. thanks guys i cant afford to mess this up
LMAO... Dude, I am going to be one of the most real guys on here for a moment to you. Let me pull out my little soapbox to stand on for a moment.... Now that I have my soapbox to stand on..
First off, yes you can fuck this up and you can afford to mess this up. WHY? It's a learning experience. She's is not the last girl on the fucking planet who will find you attractive. She is not the last hot girl left for you to meet. There will be others. Yes I know a dose of reality is like cold water to a hard cock but sometimes it just needs to be said.
When you attach that much importance to a pickup you've already made it very very difficult for you to get the girl. In order to get the girl easier it helps to maintain a "I don't care" attitude towards if you get her or not.
Next point is you are asking for us to cram into you the knowledge it takes some guys weeks, or months to master when to kino, where to kino, when to close, when not to close, etc. These are things that are learned from going out in field and calibrating ourselves to know what to do and when. This is not something that we can simply tell you on a forum.
This is not like studying for a final exam with 24 hours left before your test and you just have to memorize the answers. Pickups are dynamic and can change rapidly with each moment. It's through your skill and going out in field that will tell you when you need to push her to escalate and when to back off.
Let me apply it this one last way. You are essentially asking me to write on the forum and teach you how to drive a car for the first time without you ever touching a car before and want it to be smooth enough that you'd pass a drivers test. There are just some thing you have to learn from doing.
My suggestion is this don't try to cram a bunch of crap into your head before you see the girl. She is meeting you for a reason. A certain influx of PUA stuff and she's going to realize you aren't being congruent with who you are, or what you were like previously. Be yourself as corny as that sounds, use whatever talents you have to get the girl and make out with her.
Adding new techniques and routines you've never used before is going to be "clunky" and weird for both of you.
Best of luck sir!
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