Alright....The dreaded "I have a Boyfriend" Once this bomb is dropped alot of us have a hard time on how to keep the ball rolling. So here is a little something I call:

Boyfriend theory of relativity.

Not to be confused with Einstein and his theory of relativity. This is something totally different.

**Use this if you have already had some friendly discussion with the target and she is a bit of a talker / thinker.

"Ok, follow my thinking.

Boyfriends are like 31 flavors of ice cream in that they come to the table in a variety of shapes, forms, tastes From Vanilla – to Bubblegum, up to scherbert.
Coming at this from a relationship point of view these guys can be the nonexistent imaginary boyfriend that fends off men that are interested in you just because maybe you have had enough man crap in your life for now, to the very healthy relationship that is mutually respectful, beneficial, trusting, and we have similar interests so looks like the stars have aligned for me so things are wonderful ……..all the way to Yeah I have a boyfriend and things are not that great. Interests are not the same, we don’t do anything together, and he is demanding controlling, and I have no say in what goes on. So I am not really happy with my situation….but have not done anything about it........... YET. (Long pause till you drop that YET there)

So what I am going to do for a second and pretend like you don’t have a boyfriend….."

Good looking Girls don't typically stay single for long so you are going to run into ones that have relationships, or are holding out hope to have one, or are ready to close one down. I want you to have something to go with....rather than just say well Ok, nice meeting you...tuck tail and run.

Girls typically will not drop one relationship unless there is a good chance of of having another set up = it's just how they operate.

So if this comes your way and it will you can use the above and see if you can either continue on with your material which is what I do....Or pointedly ask about the health of the relationship. I don't like to ask this because it takes away from your game and get's her thinking about the BF...Keep the focus on you always!

I look forward to hearing the community's thoughts on this Theory.

Good way to think, but I wouldn't use that paragraph as something to say to a girl. Better to just ignore the fact that she has a boyfriend and continue on. Or, say one little thing and then move on.
One thing I like (I can't take credit for it, though I forget who came up with it) is this.
HB:I have a boyfriend.
Me:That's cool, does he treat you well?
HB:Yeah, he does.
Me: That's good (slight pause) I wouldn't (smirk).

Honestly though, if she really does have a boyfriend, move on. Very few girls are worth ruining a relationship over. Especially when there's plenty more out there.

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