I've been reading this forum off and on for the past year and this is the first time i'm posting. I'm taking this girl to my frat formal tonight. I'm solidly stuck in the friend zone but considering the situation where both of us will be drinking a lot I was trying to find out of ways to escalate things.

Its tonight damn, I was gonna tell you to freeze her out for a week or w.e, but yea.

Kino escalate when you see her, dont text her or talk to her for a while, if she says whats up just say your busy try and build yourself up, but be nice cause u dont want her to not go with you. Stay confident, and definitely go out and buy a pimp cane for your suit, look boss!!

When you see her the best you can do is Kino, and possibly even ignore her a bit, you are going to be with other friends, talk to them and just glaze into her eyes every few often, but dont talk to her directly. Make sure your the one talking in the group, making the jokes, having a good time, let her see you in this spotlight!!! Then after a couple times your staring at her, and you are getting positive IOI and shit just take her hand and go to dance if you have that, be Alpha and Assertive and just grab her away. Then dance, build kino obviously (kinda hard not to) and then isolate and go for the kiss.

You don't even need alcohol, but drink up if you want, just dont get drunk and get shitty with your game, best of luck!

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Thanks a lot, I think ignoring her will definitely help in the early going. dancing always happens at formals so I'll give a little more kino

So whats the story, say what happened, see your flaws, what you did right, and then well... just work on it

Hope you got her in the end seems like you like her a lot.

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

hope you escaped the friendzone but often ive found that bringing friends to frat formals suck massive dick.

Here is my college thread for further enlightenment

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my formal did not go as planned however i think i've learned a lot of lessons simply from tonight, mainly be more alpha, secondly i need to care for my body more and I plan to focus more on my weight than I have in many a year