Hhhmmm didn't see your other questions yesterday.
Negs, are basically a reward/punishment system. If they do something you like, they get a kiss or a hug. If they do something you disapprove of, they get a neg.
She shows up on time, give her a hug and/or kiss.
She shows up 15 mins late, you made me wait and you come looking like that?

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Obediently gives you her number. Kiss/Hug/Kino
Gives you a hard time with #. I didn't realize this before but your shoes and your outfit doesn't go together. I can't exactly pin point it but theres something off.
Dates or whatever you want to call them is NOT to please her. It is to SHOW her what YOU like to do.
I like to train in MMA, shoot guns at the range, shoot pool, go and drink with buddies, gamble once in a while, and EAT!!!!!
I do not think about what she would like as much as, what do I feel like doing today.
So basically, when I invite a girl to an outting, I invite them to do stuff that I am going to do ANYWAYS. So this mentality is, I am giving her a chance to get to know me, instead of putting her on a pedestal and trying to impress her.