Right guys, I require a little advice. I number closed a HB9 a few weeks ago and I'v been chatting her up for quite a while and I think she's quite interested in me but I don't know what to say any more to impress her and get her talking! I do really like her and I'v let her down once when we were supposed to go bowling together but I had insufficient funds and told her I had to work late.

I have no issue ever with the initial number close or anything but my first text's and mid game is terrible and I need help on both really!

Any advice would be great.

Your obviously doing something right if your getting the numbers. A lot of mid game is basically just knowing how to talk to women. I remember on date last week where me and this girl were just hanging doing pretty much nothing. We made it fun though, played games, did some role play, flirted a bit, etc.

Someone once told me that one of lifes most important skills is being able to amuse yourself, just enjoy the simple things, and use your situation to your advantage. For example, a few weeks back, me and this other girl were at a $2 store, we spent around 2 hours just making fun of/playing with things. If you can do that, and you have even a little game, then you should be fine.

The most important thing of all is that you must must MUST get out with her ASAP. The cancelled date isn't the end of the world (especially since you were the one to cancel it-- a DHV in the way you played it). But the texty flirtiness can only last so long before she moves on to another guy (remember, this is an HB9 you're talking about). Plan something with her as soon as you can, preferably something that doesn't require spending much, if any, money, since you are low on funds (and so that you don't rely on $ as a replacement for good game). In the mean time, keep it short and sweet in the world of the texting. Focus on getting that date!

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