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DHV'ing isn't about telling stories that directly say, "Hello, I am Asshole McGee and I have cool shit that happens to me. In fact, I'm the coolest mother fucker in this building." However, it does suggest this. For example...
Today, have you:
1) Had a humorous moment or something unique that you've experienced?
2) Did you act as a superior in a situation (your friend asked you for advice)?
3) Did you stand up for anyone/thing (girls like it when you are a barrier between them and the harm, including guys who are "attacking" them verbally at the bar, etc.)
4) Calmed down a friend who was freaking out?
5) Organized something for your friends/others? (being a leader is awesome!)
6) Had a girl nagging on you that you didn't want attention from? For example, maybe your crazy ex keeps texting you...
7) Hung out with another girl (think about this...girls respond way better to a man who is taken or has a lot of females around him).
8) Taken the blame for something you shouldn't have or teamed up with someone to lessen the blow of their mistake?
These are all good examples, but execution is key, too. They need to be indirect without being convoluted.
"I was out jogging today, when this car drove by with a few girls in it and one of them threw a milkshake at me! Can you believe that? But don't worry, it wasn't a big deal. They're terrible at throwing. haha. Anyway, it turns out that the girl who threw it was my ex girlfriend. She's been texting me the past couple weeks...any wild guesses why she's now my ex? haha."
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Rapport/Kino/etc.\
I don't have as much detail on this one because I've gotta get to class here in a minute, but in a nutshell, you need to find commonalities without being the douche who says, "oh really? me too!" It's like being in an elementary school classroom holding your arm up with one hand, jumping up and down, screaming "pick me pick me pick me!!!" [if you need examples...contact me, but like I said...time issues]
Kino is easy, too. It can start from the meet. Hold her hand a little too long when you introduce yourself. Girls do this, too, when they're out skankin' it up. A hand on the shoulder when you laugh at her is legit, too. That is, you can laugh and reach out and touch her arm or something. You're not throwing your gorilla arm over her shoulder and grabbing around her neck like a wild savage, that's only for your buddies.
Overall, your greatest helper is body language, though. So go search through the forum and find a few posts dealing with body language. The idea is to be open and approachable. Hope this small blurb or two helps![/b]
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