Whats up guys, so im a freshman in college and i wanna get this started off right, i dont wanna be the quiet shy guy i was in high school, whats a good way to pick up a girl in class without coming off as like bugging her or needy

I'm in the same boat as you bro .It's my first year as-well. Im about a week or 2 in and i had an all right start . I met a girl in my english class and on friday night i went to a party with a friend . grinded on this one chick for ever , got with her and came out with her digits.

but i've also been pondering a lot about class room game and campus game . let me tell you if you can have good day game in a class room , going to a party , bar ( not legal yet for me ) will be a joke . it's alot less formal and you will have very little AA if you can actually approach girls in a civilized ever day way around school.

but ok in class my tips are : sit by a girl you want to talk to. sit behind her , sit infront of her , sit aside of her ; just don't sit by a bunch of lame frat dudes . that's going to get you no where. Look at it this way , if you sit by the girl you can always talk about the class material. its easy

and oh yeah , don't have targets you will set your sights on for weeks without saying anything. won't work dude. because say you finally do talk to her and she gives you a cold shoulder or 1 word response. you will feel shitty . so just , dont over think it and when you are given opportunities to talk to some girls take them .

also , when i was at the party friday . i would go up to a girl and say " don't you go to S** ? i go there.
she would respond : yeahh!! i do . etc etc

and i would think wow i could have easily done that in the library and wouldn't have got a bitch answer .thats a girl from my very university. so put it into perspective

also , say your game goes into a slump. don't get discourage , battle through it .nothings going to happen over night .
remember girls wanna meet people in uni..just be a cool guy

thanks man, u made some real good points, i think classroom game is a bitch to figure out because girls r focused on the work not really anything else, so bringing up the material should be a good opener, ima give it a try, thanks man

game in college is completely different than every other arena in life. You'll find that the most success you have wont be from "randoms" from a party or bar but rather your friend circle which will mainly

A) come from your dorms
B) your major/related clubs or organizations

from that point, your friend circle will snowball and expand exponentially (you'll meet friends of friends of friends).

Picking up randoms from a party or bar is extremely difficult as you get older through your college career because even if you do get numbers, they arent likely to text you back because they probably arent comfortable enough with you from a few minutes of conversation at a party/bar. And since they probably already have many other friends, theres usually no need to take a chance on you. (ofcourse there are exceptions)

Make sure you take advantage of your freshman year cause thats the time when girls are still forming their friend circle and want to get to know random people. After freshman year, it becomes significantly harder.

game in college is completely different than every other arena in life. You'll find that the most success you have wont be from "randoms" from a party or bar but rather your friend circle which will mainly

A) come from your dorms
B) your major/related clubs or organizations

from that point, your friend circle will snowball and expand exponentially (you'll meet friends of friends of friends).

Picking up randoms from a party or bar is extremely difficult as you get older through your college career because even if you do get numbers, they arent likely to text you back because they probably arent comfortable enough with you from a few minutes of conversation at a party/bar. And since they probably already have many other friends, theres usually no need to take a chance on you. (ofcourse there are exceptions)

Make sure you take advantage of your freshman year cause thats the time when girls are still forming their friend circle and want to get to know random people. After freshman year, it becomes significantly harder.

When i was studied in the college offering to the pick-up the bus, there have not take money for pickup. Government sectors are also offering new servies with new buses and they very happy new servies.

I am in the same boat.
I made lots of friends but i can't seem to make myself do what's necessary to pick up actually a girl form my group. It's like we are all best friends.
How can i make it otherwise?