ok so i was texting this girl when her guy friend takes the phone and completely CB's me heres the convo give me some criticism and help me out here

HB: i have to apologize for his misbehavior
ME: Tell HIM the apologies accepted
((this is when the guys starts texting me again))
HB: i can see the message...idiot... with love
ME: ok now your just confusin me man first you insult me now you love me? im not into that kind of stuff i mean feel free to live your life like that no problems here im just sayin i like girls
HB: im not gay...? maybe we could just fool around one day and see if we like it though?
HB: (Rachels fuck buddy)
ME: what do they call that bicurious? lol
HB: yes thats exactly what they call it... so is that a yes?
ME: thats a "ill think about it pal" no promises just try not to fall in love with me
HB: dont worry im just in it for the sex
ME: ok well suprisingly i texted rachel to talk to her not my secret admirer so if you can hand the phone back to her thatd be great
HB:well rachel is busy right now...doing...you know...
HB: ok she finished up u can talk to her now. god that was good




now i totally lost that battle i just couldnt think of anything smart to say but if you guys could tell me what i did wrong and tell me what to do next time thatd be great thanks

This Kinda Happend 2 me once, but i just stoped replying when he started to text me again and ignored her a few days, then texted her back

Me: Cute that your Shopping friend is also inlove with me! You guys have so much in common!
Her: Haha yeah sorry about that! Why Have You Been Ignoring me?
Me: I havnt been ignoring you? I just dont like talking to guys who are flirting with me
Her: blablablablabla

But when I did read what you wrote, I could totally see that happening to me too =/ haha

I would just play along until i get bored then dont message for a few hours
i would text somethink like this after he said "rachels fuck buddy"

HB: i have to apologize for his misbehavior
ME: Tell HIM the apologies accepted
((this is when the guys starts texting me again))
HB: i can see the message...idiot... with love
ME: ok now your just confusin me man first you insult me now you love me? im not into that kind of stuff i mean feel free to live your life like that no problems here im just sayin i like girls
HB: im not gay...? maybe we could just fool around one day and see if we like it though?
HB: (Rachels fuck buddy)
PRookie: O Really :O What day are You free? :O
HB: Wednesday! (or whatever)
PRookie: Deal! but when your done with her tell her to text me back, So cute she finally found some "Guy" to go and shop with im not going to disturb you when you are shopping together, Have fun Gay! =D
(Then immediately text back and say)
Prookie: Sorry i mean guys! my phone must have a sixth sense or something Have fun =D

And after that just avoid to text her for a few hours then text back

"Sorry Was Busy blalbabla"

Hope It helped a bit atleast =/ But done is done so its cool just get overit and learn by your mistakes

Your One And Only PRookie!

I'll edit your post with how I would have changed that. It's a tough situation, definitely. I'm gonna steer my answers a little bit so that the conversation makes some sense, but know that his responses would be VERY different. Hopefully helpful. It's a tough situation and you didn't do that badly, so it's a difficult exchange. You're coming from the weaker position in the conversation, and it's hard to back out without looking like you're running from it.[/b]

thanks for the help guys and yea i was trying to avoid confrontation but then not just nack down either cause i mean confrontation over text would have just made me look stupid but i wasnt tryin to back down either. its tough cause he automatically started out as alpha so building up to where im the alpha is tough

I think the biggest key here (now that I read over the conversation) is to imply a sexual relationship with Rachel. He definitely did, very obviously at the end there. Also he gets the bump of actually being with her, which lends him some social proof off the bat. (Also the (Rachels fuck buddy) part, did he say that or is that a note from you? Confused me.)

yea i basically knew he had all the advantages coming in on this haha but he said rachels fuckbuddy

I'd play it something like this..

HB: i have to apologize for his misbehavior
ME: Why?
((this is when the guys starts texting me again))
HB: i can see the message...idiot... with love
ME: I'm sorry, did I imply that you were blind? You're her "girlfriend", of course you'll be peering over her shoulder looking in the screen.
HB: im not gay...? maybe we could just fool around one day and see if we like it though?
HB: (Rachels fuck buddy)
ME: Talk about yourself, queer. There's no "we" in this.
HB: yes thats exactly what they call it... so is that a yes?
ME: God, you're more sticky than a grizzly in heat.
HB: dont worry im just in it for the sex
ME: Are you even allowed to make those decisions? Look at yourself! What's up with Rachel?
HB:well rachel is busy right now...doing...you know...
ME: Obviously, not you. She hasn't got that low standards, now.
HB: ok she finished up u can talk to her now. god that was good.
ME: Blow me. Not literally, though.

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