Whats up peeps!! Just came back from a soccer practice, i'm pretty tired and emotional, and i'm thinking about this girl. It's the kind of feeling you feel on a oneitis, but not that deep. Still, i met her today, she's the friend of a friend of mine, so we met up by pure coincidence at diner. Dude, this girl has amazing blue eyes. She's a cutie...not so much a hottie, but I tend to fall for those for some reason.
Anyways, we talked introduced ourselves. There are certain stuff i wanna know.
1st, is it okay to feel oneitis or is it gonna ruin my game
2nd, now that we've been introduced and we walk by each other every day, what can i do to build a kind of relationship with her without staying to much in the "friend zone". P.S She's got a pretty high energy, like a little energizer bunny XD, its pretty awesome. Replies are appreciated Guys.

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Be as you wish to seem - Socrates

if she is high energy, times goes faster with her so you will need to move faster to avoid getting into friend zone

I say next time you see her just ask her out by suggesting an activity and following up with "just the two of us" to make your intensions known (ex Would you like to check out the nearby zoo this afternoon, just the two of us?)

If you see her in passing, DON'T get distracted by the oneitis. Stay focused on your fun ass life, how much you have going on, have your own agenda, have somewhere to go/something to do and that is the perfect time constraint. Always present yourself as busy and on-the-move if she is also energetic. [NOTE: I'm new to the PUA forum is there some acronym for this like IDM (I'ma Do Me.) or HYOA (have your own agenda) because if not I want to coin them]

"Hi Sarah whats up? I'm just on my way to soccer practice, I can't stay long but I wanted to say hey. What are you up to?" Have a short convo, as soon as you see that IOI, leave with your time constraint and suggest a date, just the two of you.

Compliment her with sexual connotations like eyes/hair/smile. This will make her think of you that way and place you in her mindset as an option. Just the other day I was talking to a guy and girl in a group mid-conversation when I said something he ignored me 100% halfway through I was talking and stared at her. When I was finished he said, "sorry I couldn't stop staring at your eyes they're beautiful."

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Swag

Swag is right on the money with his advice, with one exception. I never compliment girls on their eyes. I always compliment girls on something they can control. Shoes, hair style, make up, whatever. If you compliment her eyes you sound like every guy out there.

And Swag, those acronyms don't exist, but the idea behind inner game is exactly what you're talking about. I like HYOA though, maybe that will catch on!

Glade

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