Hi,

So i met this really hot chick at a club about 3 weeks ago, i made out with her at the club and played a pretty tight game. We exchanged numbers and she started texting the next day quite a bit and ended up going out for drinks that night. We made out that night again (no sex). The next day she again texted me to go out, i responded to that "sure, but this time there will be no kissing" just to try to play hard-to-get.
I tried to k-close that night with no luck since she took what i said "seriously".
After that, she had to travel due to work and haven't seen her since then.
We've exchanged a few texts but it feels like the spark is dying.

So the other night we were texting each other and she was acting up with a certain attitude, so i told her "alright, when you stop acting up all special you can txt me" that kept her going for a bit and i said alright, gotta go, kiss (just one). She responded "who said a needed a kiss". So i replied back "you act like you are so strong and so special but the truth is you are weak and everyone needs some love ". to that she replied "do you want to be more affectionate with me?" and i replied "maybe." , she laughed and the conversation stopped there.

Two days later, being today, she sent me a message via facebook apologizing saying that she is real sick in bed with a cold and she will probably won't be able to meet up with me this week.

I am wondering how should i play my cards at this point. Would it be too much of an AFC to stop by her building and leave her some chocolate or something at the reception?
If I just text her back saying "i hope you get better" i feel like that won't make any difference and given that in my last interact i made this progress of her actually chasing me and apologizing for being sick and not being able to meet with me, i feel like i need to do something about it to keep the spark going.

Any thoughts?

THank you very much!!

Dude , I don't know why,but I think she is lying to you.Do you really believe she is sick? Lol...Find another girls,don't give in to the oneitis

I know for a fact that she is sick because i spoke with her on the phone and she sounded like SHIT.
I dont usually fall for oneitis, but the thing here is i felt like we really got a connection and i also feel like this one chick is definitely worth gaming and dedicating her time because she is girlfriend material.

Ive been going out for more than 6 months and this is the first chick ive met all this time that i think is worth it.

anyone?

Why hadn't you laid her?

You had 3 fucking shots to.

This chicc is now trying to avoid you since she sees you as too wussy to pull the trigger.

Most girls ony give 1 shot.

She gave you 3 but all you did was make-out.

Whether she's really sicc or not doesnt mean anything.

It's apparent from her attitude that she's turned off by your tardiness to act!

It's cool to play hard to get but you've taken it too far that she now sees you as non-sexual.

I'd be surprised if she meets up again.

You should have laid her from the inception(club).

You had 2 more opportunities yet failed again.

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I tried to laid her. Problem was that two friends of her from out of town where staying at her place. All three times we went out she hanged out with them.

As soon as her friends left town, i bought two bottles of champagne, and sent her a picture of it. I said be here in an hour. She knew it was time and she was all into it. The problem was that this time her brother (who also lives out of town) was staying at her place....
I know for a fact that that wasn't an excuse (her facebook profile shower pictures of her and her brother hanging out here).

Anyways, you are probably right...
How should i have handled the situation? Is it possible to lay her even when two friends of her are staying at her apartment? Her apt is a one-bedroom so i doubt i could have laid her at her place, and bringing her back to my place and leaving her friends alone at her apt may have made her look as a slut?

Any tips for the future on how to handle something like that?

Ok,now that you've clarified it,I wanna apologize for being an asshole(lol).

You had bad logistics so you wernt able to lay her at her spot.

Only how you would've been able to lay her there was if you'd befriended her friends and they all invited you back.

I havent heard you mentioned anything about befriending her friends.

Other options were to take her somewhere else and bang her.

Her place should be last resort.

Your place should've been primary option.

Then again,since it seem like you didnt engage her friends,I doubt they would've allowed her to sneak off with you.

Your best chances were to warm up to her roomates thus making them comfortable with leaving them alone to go see you.

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No worries, you are probably right that not laying her in our 3 dates was my mistake.

I did befriend her friends and did everything right, I guess that's the main reason why her friends agreed to hang out with me again the next day after i met them.
Since I had them on my side i guess i messed up badly in not using that comfort and insisting her to go back to my place and leave her friends alone at her apt.

Yep,since you did befriend her roomies,you then had the green light to isolate her or invite her out without them.

Only thing you should be doing now is take a ste back.

Pushing it by sending her chocolate,while she's disappointed at you for not laying her,would be suicidal.

Just let her do more of the chasing now.

You may lose her either way though.

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