Okay, I'll admit I got lucky on this, and am out of my league here. I need serious help on mid-game with a effin hot girl.

A few nights ago she was really into me, and i started getting lots of ioi's that she wants to meet in person. In response I've upped my game, like I'd usually do with c/f stuff. It usually works, but is REALLY turning her off I think.

Advice pretty, pretty please? Shit-loads of possible rep points are at stake for GOOD advice.

Here are the ioi's I WAS getting:
- How tall are you?
- You're kind of a bad boy, huh? I love bad-boys.
- You're cute, have a good job, and smart. A winner in my book.


Did I mention rep points? I have like 64 points, how many of those can I give for good advice anyways?

What sort of techniques were you trying that garnered negative responses? And what sort of negative responses have you been getting?

I'm sending you a pm right now.

Too much C&F is indeed a turn-off. You should only do this in the attraction phase to convey to woman of your qualities, once you're in the comfort stage you shouldn't do this anymore. You can still use DHV spikes and observed DHVs but drop the cockyness. You'll only seem insecure to her if you "brag" too much.

Okay, you are onto something here. I'm gonna do some studying. Could you give me a few examples of a+ game in the comfort phase?. I'm not looking for game on a silver platter, but maybe some good references to study.

Comment Bookmark. I think i may be suffering from c/f overuse.

Well, too much Cocky and Funny comes off as Arrogant and Narcissistic.

Not my words, women's.

Anyway, tone it down. Show to her that that's not all you have to your personality and I CANNOT emphasize it enough but people, the more you project depth to your persona, the more hooked women become.

Women want men who have layers and layers of depth in their personalities. Even the stereotypes show that while outwardly cold and rough, inwardly warm and kind men are most desired.

If you're droning on and on about CnF routines in front of her, it's high time to stop projecting the calmer, kinder, warmer you too. Atleast on some nights. No one wants to date a one-dimensional person.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

That. Especially for more attractive girls. CnF is one of the easiest personalities to fake, and one of the most common types of game. That doesn't mean it doesn't work, but very attractive girls have seen it a LOT. You need to keep the confidence, but lose the arrogance.