I am a 20 year old hispanic college student. I am multitalented and put 100% into everything I do (Including getting women, hence why I'm here ). I am very good at soccer, playing electric guitar, surfing, fishing, creative writing/song writting. I also have had very interesting experiences that 95% of the population hasnt experienced (Surviving a rip current during a tropical storm/ Exploring the amazon jungle with my brother). I am also a very warm, caring person who puts others ahead of himself (unfortunatly). What would be a good way to flaunt these things when first meeting a woman to look interesting (Body language/humor included). I dont want to come across as im trying to hard to impress her either. Any suggestions?

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Make sure that you are UNTHREATENING! This is the mistake many guys make.. they come up too hard and too fast and seem threatening.. When you are unthreatening, the girl will come closer to you like a kitten that is climbing up on someone's lap.

You don't need much more than that. Remember that all conversations with women are about building CONNECTION (ok attraction as well, but connection is a prerequisite for trust and for going home with someone). When you build connection, you can easily take her around with you and even take her home.

In fact I don't even care about attraction.. I found a nice girl yesterday in the pub, we talked and built a great connection. We could talk about all kinds of things.. she was more towards a thinker type so we talked about different personality types..

After a little touching and a kiss I took her for a walk.. She didn't want to kiss on the street so I took her into some gate and we kissed for a while (good before the trip home).. Then we went home to my place and talked basically about philosophy all the way there.. once again here - CONNECTION.

Maybe you like girls who are not very philosophical.. that's fine.. there you can build connection with other means like being aware of the latest happenings in whatever these girls are interested in.. connection is basically being able to talk about things using the same underlying 'language' as the other person. And to be able to discuss the same subjects with as much enthusiasm..

When I do build a connection, I still fail for some reason. I don't prefer to do anything with women the night I meet them. Read my other post in the day 2 thread, that is my main problem. I thought maybe the problem started from the start, in my presentation. Im starting to think thats not the case

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I've posted an edit up there..

Ok.. basically, you can take them home anyway.. why not go for a fuck? Like if it does work then why not.. but I think if you wait till the next day then it never works.. It's like selling something to someone and then they say "leave me your phone number and I'll call you back later." if you do that then they will never every call. In fact if you call back yourself they would be 80% likely to say that they are not interested, simply because that's the way people think.

If you want to wait (for instance if you are interested in girls who are very into 'sex after marriage' maybe not literally but along these lines) then I think it would probably be better to continue building that connection over a period of time.

Something that happened not so long ago was quite fascinating.. I was fascinated with this girl I have known for a while, we had a great start at a dance place and then she kindof said "not so fast.." and then nothing happened for quite some time.. we would always meet and have nice talks though.. and I completely forgot about her for a while and then we would see each other again..

Then because of the circumstances she started inviting me for parties with her friends.. it was mostly like a fun thing.. And finally when we were on the dance floor once she came right up to me and started kissing me.. I was like wtf is happening.. lol.. since I wasn't even thinking about her at all - BUT in retrospect I can see that I have built quite a bit of connection there by just talking to her.

OMG mate! Don't flaunt those things.. openly flaunting those things would be extremely unattractive.. that's what losers at the pub do. Girls just laugh at them.

Instead it would be better for you to incorporate these things into the conversation in a natural manner. Like for example, you play soccer.. if you are talking to a girl about human interaction for instance, you can say that it's just like soccer. When two people are talking they are passing the ball between each other and then shoot it at the goal and the conversation reaches it's point..

She may then say "Oh so you play soccer?" - now you can tell her more about the teams you have played with or whatever (don't make it sound like you are bragging though) The main point is that you should not flaunt them without being asked first - however, you can trick her into asking you so that it becomes relevant within the conversation.

I do makeout with girls in clubs occasionally, but I do it while dancing with them and the game is all body language. Most of the girls I try to take out are girls I meet through friends/class/ public places. I just can never get the 2nd step. Like I said I wanted a way to present the stuff I have without looking like a loser, and you have done a great job showing how to ease it into a covnersation. I'm liking this forum

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The next step is like this.. ok so you are talking to a girl perhaps by a table standing up and you are beside her with your beer.. the music is really loud so you have to come really close and say things into her ear.. she has to do the same.. Quite naturally you can put your arm around her waist and perhaps let your body touch her breasts..

Then you can gradually ease in and kiss her. Smile and make it as though it is all just a game.. Turn away if she refuses to kiss you. Don't say anything, just turn away and start talking and laughing with some other girl beside. Then turn back and tell her "I don't like that!".. by now she'll be like completely clueless.. what? what did I do now?.. and then ease in towards her and say I don't like when you refuse to kiss me.. it's not nice.. And kiss her really quick.

At this point you can either turn away again and let her make a move or continue talking to her about something that is relevant. If you turn away and she doesn't make a move but still is standing there then she is probably just shy.. so just turn back and say "sorry.. just a minor distraction.."..

You can then complement her and kiss her again. Once she is used to making out you just say "let's go for a walk.. come.".. At this point you just have to get her out of the club and into the street.. On the street you can just stand in the middle of all the crowd passing by and kiss.. she would feel special. You are such a man!

Ask her where she lives while you are kissing.. she will ask you where you live and just tell her.. then continue kissing and just making out.. then make her a little more horny and say.. so where do you wanna go now, [your place] or [her place]? Let's go then..

Keep the conversation on the way home.. it doesn't really matter how long it is.. the way home is just a way to build excitement. Talk about whatever, and smile a lot and perhaps occasionally stroke her hair..

Once you get home all is well.. I would usually get her excited before sex so she wouldn't say no in the last second (for whatever reason). So touch her, eat her pussy and just make her so horny that she will tell you herself "I wanna feel you inside me.."

While we are talking, what are the signs she wants to kiss me?

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She would usually not be thinking about it until you make your moves..

Do you know how when a girl touches us guys on the belly or around the waste, we get horny? (Don't know about you, but I do)..

The same thing happens with her.. When you touch her on the waste or have to come close to her ear to tell her something, it's this tactile stimulation that makes her horny.. When she feels this you can now kiss her and it's going to be completely alright with her because she is already feeling aroused.

The signs? She would be very giggly, open to conversation, when you turn away she will poke you and ask you a question, she will be touching her hair, she will perhaps even touch you back (wow if she touches you actively then take her to the nearest park right away dude.. it's on!!)..