Hello guys,

i dont know what to do in this situation, need your view on this.
So, this girl for me its unpredictable, sometimes when i ask her out, she ask me if we could go earlier so we can spend more time. But, sometimes she said she cant go out without giving any reason.
And everytime i kino the girl, i.e try to grab her hand, touch her back she always run away, and sometimes say,"dont touch me". she text me everyday and she called me everyday.
So, its like im the game... what do you guys think??

A friend of mine told me that the girl doubt if im into her. So i need to show her im interested and probably need to say "i love u" to get her secured before stepping forward.

how old is she?

for how long have you known her/dated?
I wouldn't say I love you, ever.

@Ziffer : she's 23, and she doesn't look like old school type. she know how to dress, appears like she know handle boys, but when she talks its like she's being cautious. like she still cant trust me

@Mantis i couldnt agree more on the "dont say love". Tried on other girl and failed. so i found the best time to say it, when the girl ask . it's a month now, and i am losing my patience.

So, what do you guys suggest??

I suggest getting to know her more, and you need to try to build commonality with her. Also every time she does a negative reply to your kino then give her a IOD. Not a harsh one, but you have to make it clear that her behavior is not acceptable when she is around you.

Give er mixed signals! tell her i hate you and hold her hand. for example...
when she says dont touch me dont let her feel your okay with it!
make her try to win your affection not the other way around!!

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No Quitter Go Getter

I saw mystery in some video, saying that normally guys would say "i love you"
But he said that in the old days, when men got food by hunting animals, men used to feed the women they loved, and this made the women feel comfortable and secure with the man feeding them.
Therefore it is in their genes to feel comfortable and secure about a man who is feeding them.
To sum up, put food in her mouth according to mystery (Haven't done it myself though)

Good Luck