Met this girl at a club, danced with her, I get her number from facebook, I text her only a few times. Were going on a double date Friday, she won't text me back, or message me on facebook. I havn't sent tons of texts or anything just two she hasn't replied to on two different days.

Basically what I want to know, (its a double date) is when I first see her at the date should I freeze her out, or give the other girl a huge hug and just say hi to her.. Or act like nothing happened?

If it is a double date, then she must be committed to you at some level. She did not have to go. At the same time, she's clearly establishing some distance.

I'd be polite but distant. Certainly you should have a lot of fun with the other two people, but do not make her see that the fact that she did not write you back is bothering you. If you give a hug to one girl, you should also give her a hug, just a shorter, less affectionate one (girls will notice this).

Other things that have worked for me in these situations:

(1) to be easily distracted by other things in the environment, and then focus on her for brief periods of time (maybe like 5 minutes) in which I escalate physically and emotionally, and then I remove myself from her presence to have fun with other people in the group/bar/club/wherever you are.

(2) to talk to people outside of the double date... if you can disappear for a few minutes here and there to talk to random people, she will be left as a third wheel, and probably will appreciate your presence more when you come back.

Thanks man great advice.