got this girl no and added her to SPAM. can see that her replies are rather positive so far. how do i bring it to further? when msging her i did drop some hints like maybe we could have some coffee some day but im thinking when should i date her out? we only know each other like few days. thinking to ask her to watch a movie? how do i escalate from here?

Yo reporter.

The best advice I have read, and I've done it accidentally as a natural AFC in the past, is to have something you are already doing that DOESN'T make her the event.
This is very MM but it happens naturally in the world and usually works.

Like making arrangements to go to some cool bar with mates, and telling her that you are going and that she should come along.
That way wether she flakes or not, she still knows you are having a good time with or without her. No neediness.

The other thing, and this one requires a little more thought I think, is to have a few chores or an outing planned, like clothes shopping, where you can squeeze in a bit of lunch or something.

Another is to have a dinner or barbecue planned, where you have to go to the shops to get supplies for the night, this way she can tag along and you and her can have fun shopping for the event and then DHV amongst friends later on.

These are not my own inventions, but like I say, I have done them naturally in the past.

At least this way, you aren't putting it out there to be too forward, or rejected.
You can play it innocent and under the radar and just be Mr Smooth, escalating the tension and comfort all the way.

thats a good one! however i still think maybe i just ask her for a coffee date and from there know her better before like having a outing with my friends with her tagging along? it would be rather awkward i feel.

any advice?

asked the girl for a date. she say she whole 2 weeks packed.. got people so busy one huh? then tell me 31st then can.. was thinking quite long right 31st? but she mention that dinner fine with her on weekdays but only after 6. should i secure that?

Hmmmm
Don't want to be played though.

I think, by the sounds of it, you should stop worrying about her, because she appears to be making things hard.
I mean, ask her impromptu about hanging out some time after 6, but once again it's making her the event, and you are chasing like that.

Tuff one mate, think there are easier more willing fish in the sea.

See below my general advice:
- Don't stick to textmessaging. Girls find it boring after a while. Escalate! That means you will have to bring this game to a further stage-> ask her out for a drink!

- Don't ask her for a movie! Especially if she doesn't know you that well. [why? Because then she has to sit the whole night with a stranger, and you don't talk. that is awkward!]

- Ask her for a coffee and a bite, but ask it at an 'not needy'-way. [I want to try the muffins at Queen's, but I don't want to go alone. That will look stupid Wanna join?]

- During this coffee, you can show some DHV, and kino her.

- till now, the signs are good You got her number, the messages are positive. Since you know each other for a few days, things are still excited. If you wait too long, things will be boring to her. Don't forget this!

had a date with her. went rather smooth. during date we played a to know each better game. objective is to keep asking questions to the other party(random questions/bgr questions) she asked about my ex and she asked about what do you look in a girlfriend. me on the other hand also ask a lot of relationship. i even asked her how many dates do u think a person must have with you before getting together. she replied at least need know him about 1 month plus.

after the date she told me she enjoyed the date and look forward for other dates. is this a good outcome? should i ask her for another date soon? and when can i confess to her?