Hello everybody,

this is my first post as i just found out there were forum for pickup artist. So, here's my story :
This girl come to see my friend(a girl) while we were at coffee shop, then i started a conversation and my friend said,"just say u like her and u want to know her". So, i introduce my self and shake hand with this girl. Then, without waiting any longer after shaking hands she's saying bye.
After that, my friends ask me if i want her number. Then, i start to text the girl and doing cocky n funny via text, i am able to ask her for lunch. Still playing cocky and funny and the next day i can bring her out to movie.
The next day, she come and visit me while im with friends. So i guess its a good sign. She text me everyday, and so because i like her i text back and start calling her. Maybe this is my first mistakes, a friend told me why you always text back. U should pull back a little.
So, the next day she ask my friend to go out but did not ask me to accompany her. We did not chat all day, i am thinking not to go out with my friends cuz she didnot ask me to go out.She only said to me, if ur friend (a couple) pick me up, is it ok? By that time, i said. It's ok, i'll meet u there and drive u home. That night, we hit the club after my friends went home cuz her friends at the club. Since the girl and i meet each other, i tried to grab her hands and she was reluctant, but at the club she grab my hands, so we had fun i hug her, she hug me back. When i drive her home, i was thinking to kiss her. As my face come closer, she said,"no, no good night kiss"
So here's the problem :
The next day, when i text her she replies, but short. Just like the first time we met. And when i call her, i had to hold the conversation going. She wont talk much. Whenever i ask her out, she said she cant. \
At the moment, what i am doing is stop calling her, but still text her and try again the cocky and funny things. She still reply my text, but takes quite some time (15-30 minutes). back then, she reply in 5 minutes and talk alot.

Can anyone tell me where's my problem?? and how to fix it???
My friend told me my problem is contact her too much, means im needy and i need to stop and move on to next girl or dont contact her for several weeks.


Sorry if my english is bad, not my mother tounge

Anybody can give me a hint? :d

Your friend is right. You're too available my friend. Its gonna be hard, but try not to contact this girl for a while, at least until the next time you two randomly bump into each other. The thing is she already knows you're into her by the goodnight kiss attempt and she's got you by the balls.

What you should've said when she turned you down was, "That's alright. You're probably a terrible kisser anyway" with a boyish smile and then kicked her out of the car.

One thing you can do is the next time you guys run into each other and it's at a social event, mingle and talk to all the chicks you can...except her. More than likely she'll see that you're not giving her attention, and the green eyed jealousy monster will come out. When you do talk to her, keep it light, keep it funny, and keep it SHORT. She will wonder what the heck happened while you're out getting numbers from girls who are actually worth your time.

"That's alright. You're probably a terrible kisser anyway" -> this is a good line.. will memorize and probably use it the next time i bump into same situation.

Okay, will do the tips. thanks Vietman