OK, so i have no problem approaching and building comfort, but im completely clueless when it comes to kino escalation, it sucks because i know what im doing wrong but i dont know how to fix it. any suggestions? What do you guys use to build sexual tension??

what is exactly that u think u are doing wrong ?

and what do u mean by no problem building comfort ?
sayed better: what is ur definition of comfort ? cuz doing comfort without phsycal escalation is buying a ticket with no stops to the friend zone

that been said, im no pua but kino is definetly my strongest part of the game, pm me and i'll help u as much as i can

I agree with Miky, once you start kino you have to push it until you can't any more. Otherwise you very quickly fail the test and are stuffed in the "safe" category with a one way ticket to eternal friendzone.

He're is a perfect example of a total failure what I should have done different (hope it helps).

There was this sexy asian girl in one of the student clubs at my college. I'd say about HB8/9 depending on the day. Heard through some mutual friends that she currently available but very picky. I went for it. I'll skip the early game stuff and jump to kino failure. We'd hung out a couple times and I was getting clear IOI's, but this is before I really understood all that stuff so to me it just seemed like good progress towards GF material. She invited me out to a club to meet up with her friends. I picked her up from her apt and she said "I just have to stop by my friends place quick".

We got to her friends apt but no one was home. We wandered around the apartment for a minute and then she randomly got up and sat down on this futon that was kind of out of the way in a semi secluded area of the apartment. I felt weird being in someone elses apartment that I didn't know, so i figured she was just chilling in the least intrusive area till they got back....WRONG!!!!!!!

Looking back this was her ploy to give me the "are you man enough" test. She put herself in a lone scenario purposely knowing it was available for a while to see what I would do. She even scooted over to me and I choose to play the "large and in charge" role when i should have been the "horny go for it bad ass" she wanted. needless to say after a minute or two of joking around she suddenly got weirded out and wanted to leave to head to the party. TEST FAILED.

What I should have done: 1) put my hand on her leg and make some jokes. 2) touch her hair and make eye contact. Failing that ask about getting a drink if they had any (booze). if so push for a shot or two, then back to jokes and light kino. 3) go for a kiss. If denied, offer more shots - repeat. 4) make hog wild spider monkey punani on those random suckas futon and gotten the hell outta there.

Instead, I got laregely ignored for the rest of the night and we ended up being "friends" and eventually "roomates" for a time with absolutely no action..... FAIL FAIL FAIL

No girl (unless totally drunk, high, or naive) will allow themselves into a secluded, private situation with a guy they knowingly give IOI's to unless they are expecting SOMETHING to happen. Live by that.

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Thankx psych,
That does help. I think I just need to get out of my comfort zone and just go for it. I've been looking at Gamblers micro escalation and I figure that would be my best bet as far as building sexual interest. Im going to the bar tomorrow, so I'm not leaving without a story to tell!