Hey Guys,

A girl I met on facebook with whom I now doing quite a bit of texting just tells me she has a boyfriend but that she's thinks she's not attracted to him anymore. I wanted to ask her out on a double date or something with a friend but now I want to do something more subtle if you know what I mean.

How would you guys date this girl? (I think she's allready attracted to me, she's seen me once and she's giving me small IOI's through text).

And btw, should I try to kiss her while she has a boyfriend, personally I think hell yeah fuck that guy, but what do you guys think?

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Ammo101

Don't double date. I feel it puts alot more pressure on her with another couple or such there. Either invite her out for a drink with you personally, or invite her to a party or club with a group. In the group situation there will be no pressure, n since she's in your group, you can easily isolate. If you go out for a drink, she is already isolated so start gaming. Escalate kino like you normally would. Remember, your a handsy guy. Also, kissing isn't the goal, fucking her is. Her bf is a nonfactor, n I actually just posted alot on this topic in another thread. Find it! She already said she isn't into her dude anymore. She is definitely looking to get smashed, but mostly she wants something new and exciting. Be that experience for her. Good luck buddy n remember to post what happens.

Thanks for the reply man, I checked out the other topic about fucking a bf'ed girl and damn that topic was a warzone. Also i'm not to experienced with kino, I only really touched a girl (with bad intentions(A)) when she was sitting next to me on my bed or couch. Do you have any tips for a club or bar kind of setting? and you mentioned escalating kino, do you mean just going over the top?

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Ammo101

Just be a handsy guy. Like when you are talking to her don't be scared to touch her arm when you are laughin or something. If you are doing the cube, put you hand on her arm/back while u ask each question. At the beginning you are just trying to get her used to being touched. Keep touching, n start escalating. So at some point you may start laughin with her or telling her something, but now instead of touching her arm/back, u touch her leg. Once you get to the point where you two are making out, start by rubbing her arms/back. Then move to stomachs n legs. Then tits n pussy...as a basic outline. If you rush into it, it will be weird. If you at first just get her used to being touched by you, then keep progressing, it will just flow. In a club its great because you can dance with her n she will be grinding on you. So she will be sooooo used to touching you, when you get her alone you can escalate much quicker. Post your field report and good luck n happy hunting buddy.

So I'm still talking to this girl and she actually broke up with her boyfriend but I stil haven't dated her. To be honest it kind of scares me the way she's sending IOI's (changing her opinion, even negging people she knows, and stuff like that) and she said that she doesn't want to be used for sex.

The only goal i've got with her though is Sex and nothing more. Should I just make it very clear that that's the only objective I have and if she still wants to date me then just have sex with her?

What do you guys think?

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Ammo101

I wouldn't put any type of classification on your interactions. Like I wouldn't say..hey I just want sex or hey I wanna date you. I would just try to chill with her n let it go from there. PU in my opinion is about creating a little universe between you two, building the sexual tension, then capitalizing. You don't have to tell her anything. She shouldn't ask, but if for some reason she is like "what are your intentions w/me (god that sounds like what a father would ask lol), I would say somethin like. You seem cool n cute, and I just wanted to see how cool u r . Something that conveys interest while at the same point leaves the situation open ended. Also, she knows that you are qualifying her, based on her behavior. Use the word "seem" not "are" cause it doesn't lock you into anything. Hope this helps

Thanks man, that's good advice.

I think I'm just gonna date her for a bit and don't promise her anything or tell her something like i'm want a relationship with you. It's just kind of hard because she's constantly talking like that and she wants to talk about what kind of girl i want in a relationship and shit, I just told her: i'm not trying to apply for a job here.

Actually she's giving me so much IOI's in such a short time (and just via the internet) that i'm wondering if this girl is even mentally stable or that my game just has improved this much.

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Ammo101

Just do your thing Dutchian! If she doesn't want to be used for sex then that's her problem! You just need to give her the idea there is some sort of ''future'' for you too! But ofcourse that's not your intention Manipulate that putang!