Here's the situation guys.
Went on a date yesterday. It was at a lounge, which means that the table was a kinda of an obstacle for kino. For the kino, I only palm read her and gave her a few high fives and that's pretty much it - first mistake.
Anyways, we talked for like 2 hours and he seems like we really connected.
After that I give her a ride home and we end up talking for like another 2 hours inside the car - seriously, I had never talked about such deep topics on a first date and I guess this is when the most rapport and comfrot was built. She was really interested about my life,work, passions and everything - that's good.

sooo, within 1 hour inside the car i make my move - second mistake. I should have watched her body language because she wasn't totally open and we weren't kinoing a lot. Yea it's been a long time I haven't gone on a date, since I usually hook up at bars and clubs.

Since there wasn't a lot of kino, I didn't feel comfortable just leaning in and kissing her so I said something like this:

- You got a cool personality - I like that about you. Now I only need to find out if you're a good kisser

This is where I don't really know what's going on. whether what she says it's bs or not.

she responds,

- how about in the next date ??? I just don't wanna do that right now because a kiss can lead to other things. I like you and I want to see you again so I don't want to mess things up between us . Don't get me wrong, take it as a compliment. blablalba

I'm like

- (wtf, whatever) I understand. In my culture though, a kiss isn't a bid deal anyways. To me it isn't a big deal, and if it leads to sex that quickly that means you can't control yourself. can you ?

she says she can, and only don't wanna mess up this date - again, she said she would like to see me again. also, she said she was a kiss to be more natural. like in the moment and blablabla

we talked to another hour about stuff and then she left. I didn`t even bother making another move - maybe i should have.

Was it the lack of kino that lead to this, or maybe jsut the way this girl is ? she could be lying about that stuff but since we had a good connection i think it`s true anyways.

Should I wait a couple days before I call her ? Any advice ?

I wanna give her another shot so let me know



GringoZ